Is there and explanation for a love-sex relationship between a young male and a senior or old man over 50?

Answer 1

It's none of your business.

Answer 2

Assuming the young male(or female) is an adult and freely able to give consent, yes. We over 50 have decades of experience and wisdom to offer. We know what we want and how to get it. For the most part we have gotten over ourselves and actually can be the people we are rather than what we are supposed to be by societies standards or who our families and friends think we should be. Being exposed to this mentoring type of relationship has the possibility of a grounding effect on a young adult.

For the older person, its the satisfaction that you have something valuable to offer to a younger generation, some wisdom or insight that will help him (or her, this goes for women as well) be a far more rounded person. Not to mention the sexual and psychological satisfaction of a young responsive body that is perhaps unfettered by time and routine.

However in my personal opinion, it is not fair for someone over 50 to expect a young adult to be with him or her forever. They should have the opportunity to create a life and a family with a man or woman closer to their age so that they can live a long life together.

Answer 3

Sure, they care about one another. We have a congressman in District 20 of New York, John Sweeney (R - NY) who is married to a woman close to or around 25 years younger than he is. I have no problem with the relationship, I think they love each other -- I have a HUGE problem with the fact that he apparently beats her from what I've been reading in the media.

We need to all get off the age dime and look at the things that really matter. If a young man loves a man who is 50-something -- that's nice. No explanation other than the love itself is needed.

Kind thoughts,

Reyn
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Answer 4

In so far as a Love relationship gay/bi/g0y I imagine it would be as any other such relationship only most likely it would be more sound more grounded more apt to last some years however it would depend on the quality of the character of both as well as the health and outward attractiveness of the older individual many people in their early 50's can these days easily pass for far far younger,and many are far healthier than younger others certainly they are established settled most are non promiscuous and want a monogamous loving relationship whereas most of the younger men in their early 20's are not. The few that are seek out older people whom they can Emotionally,Intellectually,and Otherwise Relate to.

Answer 5

Firstly, what sort of explanation are you looking for? Relationships and sexual situations can and do happen between lots of different age groups. Mostly, people assume that because there is an age gap (as in an older man and a younger woman, or and older woman and a younger man, or an older man and a younger man, or and older woman and a young woman) that somehow age difference somehow signifies power indifference. For example, often people who are younger are assumed to be less self empowered and therefore more likely to be weaker and more prone to dominance by the older partner. These are assumptions only. My first relationship was with an older man and I never felt there were any power differences. However, this is an exception to the general populus's steriotyping of power inequalities due to age. I also think it is a form of ageism. Ageism is bias against a person or group on the grounds of age.
Although ageism can refer to bias against any age group, ageism (and age discrimination) are usually focused on either of two targets, the actual age limits being vague:

Young people (Ageism against adolescents is also called "Adultism"), stereotypically calling them immature, insubordinate and irresponsible. In its worst forms, it is also known as "Ephebiphobia".
The elderly, stereotypically calling them slow, weak, dependent and senile.

In any intergenerational relationship or contact both partners, the adult as well as the young person, have it in their power to regulate their own lives, their relationships and the grade of intimacy.
Each partner has the right to self-determination and the responsibility to acknowledge this right in the other. Therefore, both partners in open communication will choose the grade of intimacy at any moment.

" One thing's for certain: daddy/boy relationships shouldn't be reduced to the old stereotypes of Dirty Old Man and Exploited (or Exploiting) Youth. Whether it's the red-hot eroticism of the anthology Doing It for Daddy or the tenderness of a long-term intergenerational relationship, age has, for many gay men, become another piece of our lives that can be looked at, played with, made meaningful, and made hot. "

Answer 6

i would presume the younger man is searching for a father figure.

Answer 7

your question has been explained in great detailed if you refere the great inidan mythological "KAMASUTRA". you may get some pics and some positions too there for your answers

Answer 8

Define "young".
Legal adult or not?

Answer 9

Yeah, MONEY

Answer 10

money?