My friend's husband behaves in a very moody way and does not allow her to talk to any other outside person, restricted all the forms of communications, has some bladder control problem and has bed wetting even now.(age 30).Beats her very often and finds faults in every act of hers. Kindly give any suggestion as to how to solve her problem.
2006-11-05 19:47:20 · 8 answers · asked by rathu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
divorce. better late than never. her husband needs medication and some psychological counselling. bed wetting could be a psychological problem or if its the bowels problem, then it requires urgent attention. wife beating is a serious problem and should be taken up with a counsellor or mediator.
2006-11-05 19:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by wow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he has a psychological problem which is the cause for his moody behaviour and also bed wetting at this age. He is suffering from insecurity and that is why he beats up your friend ( when he does that he feels 'manly').
I suggest that a close mutual friend ( preferably an elder ) talks to this man and gets him to realise that his actions are ruining his own life and he should meet counsellors to assist him with this problem.
If it gets worse, ask your friend to walk out of his life.
2006-11-06 04:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by JDGuru at work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend's self-esteem is so low, or at the same level as her husbands. Which is exactly what he wants! If needed, the need time he lays a hand on her, YOU call the Police and do your friend a favor. That will get the ball rolling for your friend to seek help. A restraining order will probably be brought against him, and he will be forced to stay away from her. Or suffer the consequences of the law. Your a good friend, and your friend someday hopefully will thank-you for her life!
2006-11-06 04:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one answer she needs to gather her courage and leave. She should go to a battered woman's shelter. If this man is like this now it will only get worse and he will end up killing her. SHE NEEDS TO GO NOW!!!!! It sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. HELP HER GET OUT RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!
2006-11-06 03:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way for her to solve 'her' problem is to leave that loser.
2006-11-06 03:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Das 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she needs to leave before it is too late for her to leave. domestic violence shelter will help her good luck
2006-11-06 06:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
police complaint for beating his wife.what a jerk he is************************************
2006-11-06 03:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot him
2006-11-06 03:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Garrie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋