ok I was readingthis girls question and she is 19 with a 1 yr old kid with a 25 yr old guy ....now why is it that it seems young women think it go good idea to have kids with men they are not married to or even why have a kid before you leave your teens ?? I am asking in a serious manner I just don't freaking get it why why why
2006-11-05 19:20:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I never said I did'nt believe in pre marital sex , I just don't think you should have kids and not beable to care for them in a reasonable manner and most 19 year old girls can't do that ....not trying to be meanI just really can't wrap my head around why
2006-11-05 19:37:43 · update #1
I don't get it either, why would you want to bring a child into the world when you're still a child to begin with is beyond me. I mean I can see if its an accident, because accident like this happen far too often, but when a girl has a baby to keep a guy is wrong because it puts way too much stress and pressure on both the girl and the guy and then the relationship is bound to end up really bad, and both are left asking why and how could this have happened. I just think girls need to really think long and hard before then get into a relationship like this, if they're really ready to become a mother and the guy they're with is ready to become a father then that's fine, but 9 times out of 10 its going end up like a story on the Maury show.
2006-11-06 02:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~Kricket~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First Of All This 25 yr old Must Have Given A Line A Mile Long....She Was Probably A Virgin..And He Just Weaseled His Way In And Didn't Use Protection And 9MTS Later He IS Paying Child Support I HOPE....luv kara
2006-11-06 00:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the age of 18 they are adults and can see who they want and do what they want. Who cares about age difference? All consenting adults. I had fun with a 19 year old chick in the middle of the night in the middle of a local park. I was in my early 30's at the time.
Two thumbs up, a twist and a kiss.
2006-11-05 19:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are weak and some men are conniving and why are you asking about the woman what about the man why is having unprotected sex with a woman he is not married too.. Some women as some men are not mature enough to think past there hormones..
2006-11-05 19:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know in this case I am one of the lucky ones.I had my first daughter at 19,and my husband then,was 26. We are are still very happily married.My daughter was not planned,but she was a wonderful surprise and I wouldn't change her for the world,as she is just an amazing human being.
2006-11-05 21:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they didn't plan this... but they did have sex without proper protection... or the protection failed....
hey, there are obviously guys having the sex too... (have you had sex before marriage or before you turned 20? if you answered yes, then you are a hypocrite)
ok, so i made it out of my teens without becoming pregnant, but i also was smarter than most... i doubled up on that protection...
2006-11-05 19:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
s*** happens. some ppl just aren't fortunate enuf to hv guidance. it's never a gud idea to hv a kid without a proper family nucleus. it messes the kid up BIG TIME. period.
2006-11-05 19:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking it wasn't quite the intention, just a result of poor planning and lack of aforethought..
2006-11-05 19:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pre-marital sex... and they are not responsible enough to practice safe sex... they should, cause the child will be the one to suffer in some circumstances.
2006-11-05 19:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sapphire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because maybe it wasn’t planned. Not everyone does an abortion
2006-11-05 19:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Avskull 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋