2006-11-05 19:01:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't see a problem with it, and I don't understand what some of the other folks who answered are bothered about.
2006-11-05 20:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by sammi kitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the man should be up-front long before the question of marriage comes up. For some women, it would be a deal-breaker. But others would see it as just another aspect of a personality. Some might even enjoy the role-playing. I think the important thing is to give the woman an opportunity to decide before marriage if this is something she can live with or not.
2006-11-06 03:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by izzy_a_dumas 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
of coarse i am a transsexual so i am a little bit bias
but i thin i would let he do it if it made hi happy
really i think he should have told you before you are married
but that is a trust thing
being a x-dresser dose not make him gay but if you have to ask him then do it
if you have a problem with him wearing your clothes tell him that he must buy his own and only wear his
other rules you may want to impact on him could be as long as you do not have to see it making he dose it like in private
the other way to go of coarse is to embassi t in to your lives
make him wear the clothes out that is always a great moment for him to have and if you were part of that it might bring you closer together
good luck remember you are not alone there are many people going thought the same problems you are facing
2006-11-06 03:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Had one for decades. In his favor, he was upfront about it, it was about the first thing he told me when we met at age 17 and still in high school. Really it went like this "Hi, my name is Mike and I dress up in women's clothing. " It was the 60's and I was already practicing BDSM so I was ok with it. He also was and is attractive as a woman, he spent a great deal of time perfecting his "illusion" as he calls it, and he has performed drag on stage very effectively.
However, the marriage failed for this reason. He put everyone and everything before his family, and he put alcohol before everyone and everything. He comes from a long line of self absorbed drunks, so dressing as a woman didn't matter at all.
When I was almost 40 I got tired of being the sexually aggressive person, I was raising our daughters and he refused to take responsibility for our relationship at all. Again, the dressing had nothing to do with this.
So my opinion is a positive one on the dressing, I love crossdressers in general, however negative on the self absorbed drunk ones. I hate drunks.
2006-11-06 09:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend cross dresses and i must admit was worried to start wif until i met her then thought wow she looks better than me. we laugh , talk share clothing when he feels the need to do it also , i ve never met a man who totally interested in what i do and say and wear , our sex life is amazing now, and he has no dis ere to become a full time woman. It also makes me pay more attention to my self alto more , which is good as peeps always say am glowing, so hes my boyfriend, lover best friend all rolled into one , we have some wicked girl days when we behind closed doors , just except it if u can , am sure u can become alto closer and love him all the more xxx
2006-11-06 06:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know most women would be eitheir wary of a cross-dressing husband, or mildy accepting, but i'm wondering where I can find one! All the cute guys in drag just never seem to dig me :( *sigh*
2006-11-06 07:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by uberzwitter67 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have thought a lot about this. women can wear mens clothing and nothing is ever said about it, we see it everyday. why is it so much more pressure is put on men to be so "macho"? if this is the person he is, your husband; he isn't going to change. i agree with the statement it should not be something you find out about after marriage. society does make it hard on men to be themselves in public which i find very unfair but thats the way it is. i guess it's up to women to make it easier for them.
2006-11-06 04:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that makes him happy. Would you rather he want to do it, but not? Doesn't mean he's gay. Hopefully he can wear the same size clothing as you so you won't have to buy a bunch of new clothing and so you can wear stuff he buys for himself. Now you have a new shopping buddy!
2006-11-06 03:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey Mouse 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i would like it, i am pretty open minded to most things. hopefully he takes the same dress size as you. save you heaps of money on clothes. make sure he buys designer labels.
2006-11-06 04:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by sharon w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pretty fun,its just an appearance,it doesn't change what inside him at all!!He is still him,the one that you are married,the one that you love.
You are in love with him,not his appearance.
2006-11-10 02:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋