2006-11-05 18:05:44 · 29 answers · asked by Alexandra M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would appreciate it if you could prove you point somehow
2006-11-05 18:08:35 · update #1
An adultery is only an adultery when people care about each other, in which case adultery is pointless and is not to be justified!!
2006-11-08 12:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it can't. There is absolutely no reason to justify breaking your marriage vow to one person by having sex with another. There are justifiable reasons for divorcing someone (abuse, cheating, etc.), but there isn't any sane reason to justify adultery. It breaks the bond of trust between a husband and wife and without trust, what do you have? Nothing.
2006-11-06 06:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how to prove the point, other than saying do you really think you are a better person for hurting the person you married, by going off and having meaningless sex with someone else. I mean if you think its cool to cheat on someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, then yea its pretty darn justified. Its really up to you though or whom ever you are thinking of in this situation.
2006-11-05 18:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to justify adultery in the sight of God. though man may be able to see your reason for doing wrong, there is no justification under Gods law...infidelity is justification for a divorce so if that's the case, divorce the person you are with before going out committing adultery...although even if you get a divorce, fornication isn't justified either!!! i think its best to just walk the straight and narrow!!
2006-11-05 18:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by huneygrl1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. No excuses. The only thing that can fix a relationship where adultery has taken place is sincere remorse over what they've done and asking forgiveness from their spouse and God. Then the job of rebuilding trust in the relationship begins.
Sue
2006-11-05 18:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accepted no. That rule of thumb is just ingrained into our consciousness so endlessly that everyone takes it for granted. However, unhappy people, who can not easily leave their partner, may need another person to keep from going insane. It may not even really be a physical need. My wife even gets jealous when I jerk off.
But even though it's not justified in law, or by others on this page, the question has to be raised why is it so prevalent?
2006-11-05 18:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is a standing, pre-existing agreement of having an open relationship then sure. If not then I do not see how it could be justified. If it has turned into being ur fault or vise versa that is not right or fair for someone to say. if u are looking for help coming up with good justification I have none!
2006-11-05 18:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i am sure if you think about it long and hard you could some up with some reasons to justify adultery in your own mind. but in all reality i would say noooooo .
2006-11-05 18:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If the relationship has a problem it must be solved by other means. Adultery is destructive and hard to forgive. Its hard to trust someone who has commited adultery.
2006-11-05 18:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by John T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. The cheater has already justified it for themselves but it simply won't work for their spouse.
You'll never forget and it's very difficult to forgive. You'll need to do that eventually, for your own well-being. But unless you both agree to counselling, it'll always be that 900 pound gorilla you're trying to ignore.
2006-11-05 18:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by cynical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋