How i tell my mama & papa that i want marrage?

Question

dear friend before 4 years my papa and mama told me that we want to arrange the marrage for u just u tell me ur choice but i dont have any choice that time & untill now. so i need now marrage because i am now young so how i tell now my mama & papa that u people search for me a partner and how i know that is suitable girl for me? can please any body give me the answer i will thankful for him

with best regard
sunny shah

Answer 1

Hi!
I know it is difficult because in our country their is a huge generation gap between parents and children.
But, you had told in your question that 4 years ago they had given you permission for your choice and time.

So, you can start like this:
' Papa,you had talked about my marriage, few years ago. I feel that now it is the right time for me to marry! What do you feel?'

I think there is nothing wrong in using these words to your papa and mama, in turn they will feel that you are matured because you have made your own decision.

Answer 2

I think mom is more like a friend, so whenever she require someone help in her house work, tell her like this " Mom just make a arrange for my marrage, How can I let u do so much work. Understand ?

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Hi sunny,

Just tell your brother or sis to bring up the topic of your marriage or better ask a close friend to come home one days and start talking about his marriage plans and then ask him to tell your parents that "aunty abhi iske bhi shaddi kara do" at that time you can say ya let my parents find someone i will get married than.

So even they will know that you want to get married so this will hopefully solve your problem.

Answer 5

hey sunny its easy dear write every thing in a letter what ever u want to tell to your parents n give that letter 2 ur papa.....if u r not close wd your papa then give that letter 2 your mamma.ok good luck.:)) byeee.

Answer 6

They had already told you to inform them of your intention, as and when you feel. Then, why you are shy? You may perhaps convey this through your friends. If you have a sister, she is the ideal candidate for breaking it to the parents.

Answer 7

Search for yourself. Get to know the girl. Ask her if she wants to marry then tell your parents.

Answer 8

dude, if ur not mature enough to tell ur parents a natural thing,they trust me ur not matured for marriage.Howver if ur shy..do it indirectly by telling them stories of ur frnds getting married and stuff.if ur folks are smart enough they will get the hint and also ask u.

Answer 9

parents always want happiness of children.
go and without hesitation tell them ur wish.

( I presume that ur profeesianlly settled)

Answer 10

don't take any tension, just get to your parent and tell them frankly that i want to marriage. if you are in love with someone then let you know them about her, else you tell them for searching.