2006-11-05 17:48:28 · 23 answers · asked by genah18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No thank you.
2006-11-05 17:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on you honestly. If he cross dresses that does not mean he is gay. Actually 99% of cross dressers are not. It really depends on how acceptable you are to his "fetish" (and I use the word lightly since it is actually very common for men to dress in some kind of "women's" clothing.)
If you reach a level of compromise with him that allows him to act out these "urges" that is acceptable to you then it can actually strengthen your bond and relationship. He will receive the acceptance he is hoping to gain from you and you will feel better knowing he can be honest with you.
Its really not all that bad. Normally if you make the agreement that he only do it in the bedroom, or in the house with you or alone, it will work out pretty well. Most will do something simple like wear pantyhose under jeans (actually about 25% of constuction workers do this) or women's underwear under their clothing. It doesn't hurt anyone, because no one knows. It can actually be fun too. You normally can't get guys to go shopping, now you can.
And just remember.....women wear "men's" clothing all the time. Why can't they borrow ours?
2006-11-06 02:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by charice266 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't understand it, nor would I want to be married to a man who feels the need to dress or act femanine. If my husband had this desire, I think I would have to divorce him, but I would continue to be his friend and love him till the day I die. I associate cross dressing with being gay, after all it is a male acting femanine, and that is not appealing to me.
2006-11-06 01:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, does he wear it outside the house? I personally don't have a problem with it. However I would have 2 constraints.
1. He could not wear my clothing.
2. I would prefer he only wear such clothing in the house, but at the very least when we go out together he dress as a man.
2006-11-06 01:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just make sure he always has on clean panties !! you know in case he has an accident in the car. And help him make sure he is always looking his best, eye liner, lipstick, etc. Earrings are very important too they should always match the outfit. Offer to go help him buy his under ware in the store and say it real loud in the store, Hey honey these panties would really look good on you and hey here's a nice bra to match, ask him what size he wears !! Embarrass the hell out of him and maybe he will quit.
2006-11-06 02:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has one fetish or another, your husbands just happens to be cross dressing, some men do it because they like the feel of womens clothing, silky, lacey...ect. And some men who crossdress are much better husbands because they tend to want to understand women better.
If you love him and can deal with it, then let him have his pleasure and if you really want to make him smile...buy him something really sexy!
If you can't deal with, you need to tell him your feelings, and hopefully you can both come to an understanding. And just because he does it, doesn't mean he loves you any less.
2006-11-06 01:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's gay, but he uses having a wife to hide it because he can't come out of the closet and say he's gay. Sadly you have probably accepted and that only makes matters better for him. Truly I don't think it's okay for a husband to cross dress.
2006-11-06 01:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lorena P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't really matter what anyone else but YOU thinks.
If you are ok with it...and you and your husband close to the same size...you can double your wardrobe...
If you aren't, talk to him, perhaps you should seek counseling if you are interested in staying married.
If you are too freaked out...perhaps you should find a good attorney.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 01:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Susanne W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bigger closet and tons of awesome clothes! No really...ummm I would think that it would be difficult in many aspects. He might have sexuality issues and that could lead to problems.
2006-11-06 01:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by LenaRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a couple get up to in their personal life is no-one elses business. It's not that uncommon either and for anyone to say it is a 'perversion' needs to go back to their cave. HTH : )
2006-11-06 01:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had a bf that turned out that way . mentaly i couldnt deal with it . and no way could i make love to a man in woman clothes .
we split up fast.
2006-11-06 01:56:33 · answer #11 · answered by porcelain65711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋