I have always found the beauty in women and it seems the more I get crushed by a guy, the more I want to be with a woman. My first kiss when I was a child experimenting was with a girl, maybe I had it right then??
2006-11-05 16:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by l'il mama 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I hate to bust your little bubble but you can take it from a guy who has been with a few women, they are not a shelter from Pain.
2006-11-05 17:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that your running away from people who hurt you, or guys. This is a psychological thing. You're not attracted to women (as far as I can tell) you are just going to the only thing that hasn't hurt you YET. Sorry to break it to you, but heartbreak comes in all shapes and forms, it could happen again, with a woman.That's life. How about instead of running away from the hurt, you get up and say "OK, you aren't the guy who hurt me and I'll give it a try". You're running away, and using the excuse, in your mind that you are attracted to women, as a way to get rid of the fear of having a broken heart again. This also in simpler terms is called denial. I don't mean to sound harsh, but you need to face your problems and making excuses and changing your mind about sexual preference because of a few heartbreaks is very weak willed. I'm not saying you couldn't be..but this just seems pathetic and you're running away by making this decision.
2006-11-06 01:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
abused, used, hurt name it
just wrong guys, no regrets though with experience now you know not to meet those kind of guys. all guys are not same
I have a lot of girlfriends for support sure but its different.
my first kiss was a girl too, 5 girlfriends played spin the bottle truth or dare because we didn't know how to kiss we practiced on each other.
2006-11-06 01:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by EINNOC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was just that one dude. There are other guys that can do way better. But if you want a girl then get one but u shouldn't give up on guys just becuase of a bad experience. There are tons of good relationships with heterosexual. But I tell you one thing...usually when ur in a same sex relationship...it doesn't last and you wanna be with tons of girls. Sooo do whatever you feel is right. Maybe u should try dating another race...
2006-11-06 00:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Don't be fooled, a woman can crush a heart just as well as any man!
2006-11-06 08:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think that women won't hurt you, you are in for a big suprise.
2006-11-07 20:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you did, maybe you will find out soon but soon enough you will find out soon maybe
2006-11-06 01:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by psycho 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when i was a puppy, my first kiss was with a kitten. now, i don't like poo-z. hehehe...
2006-11-06 00:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋