today is my birthday my husband is locked up and I have been crying almost everynight can someone help me I hate feeling this way i feel like killing myself right now help please!!
2006-11-05 16:51:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i cant do this by myself I really need him i dont work.
2006-11-05 16:53:36 · update #1
You REALLY need to see and talk to someone--ANYONE.
No one here is going to be able to help you, but you can always help yourself. It's no longer about yourself; you have a little life inside of you.
PLEASE go see someone!
It's not about your husband--this is about you. While you need independence, you also need to have some relationships in your life, even if it's just for awhile. Can you move in with your mother? Your father? A friend?
2006-11-05 16:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday!
Well, I would say that you should have some patience. You are going to have a baby in four months, shouldn't that be good news. I think you wont be depressed if you give some love and care to your upcoming baby. I don't know what your relationship is like with your husband, but either you should leave him or be there for him, and support him -- i guess you know which he deserves. Dont kill yourself -- you'll be ending a life, two actually. You are in a situation that is the opposite of death, you have life inside you, and you are responsible for a new life, and then shaping it into a wonderful person. Think of the beauty of that. I wish I had a better gift for you, but here's a website to surf. I wish you a happier birthday, and have some cake.
2006-11-05 17:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by ScotOS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist to help you with the coping part of this situation.
You are depressed because you have some depressing things going on. Look in your local phone book for family therapists.
You can probably get it for almost free depending on your financial. look under your county mental health in the phone book.
If you are feeling suicidal I would suggest for the moment that you call a hot line designed to listen and maybe give you some ideas on how to relieve some of the stress and worry you are having. And by the way...HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
I'm sorry you are feeling so bad right now...but remember that nothing stays the same forever...you just need some support to get through this.
Here is the link to a place you can call right now..for free.
http://suicidehotlines.com/
I'm glad you were born....And when your baby is born...you will know why you got through this awful time.
Take care...you WILL get through this.
2006-11-05 17:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see the doc tomorrow and get help. You may just be suffering from stress because of the pregnancy and being alone etc and not have depression but this will be for the doc to decide. Call the docs office ASAP in the morning and get checked out.
2006-11-05 16:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have anyone else you can go to...
is there no way to talk to your husband..
You really should find someone who would give a helping hand or even just a listening ear... Think of your baby.. after all he/she is a blessing
2006-11-05 16:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jeszhie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of thinking about ur husband being in jail, think of when ull be able to c him again. look at things a positive way, like be happy that ur alive, and that ur husband is not dead, things could always be worst.
for ur pregnancy, do u want to have a child? wat does ur husband say? if he says yes, u should think about the fact that he might not be with u when the baby is born. if neither of u want it, take birth control or go c a doctor.
2006-11-05 16:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the sake of your child more so, go speak to your Doctor and get into counceling or support groups for pregnant women. Lots of pregnant women get depressed. Get help asap...
2006-11-05 16:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Reckless Ambition 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't kill yourself it will get better you need to find an activity you enjoy and will distract you from your thoughts and you should start exercising start walking exercise releases endorphins in the brain and endorphins are a natural drug in your body that make you feel happier just remember it will get better DO NOT kill your self suicide is never the answer
2006-11-05 16:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by my middle name is danger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-05 16:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋