what a person can do to make herself better?

Answer 1

Get a diary. Make two columns. In one columns, write about things you love or like about yourself and in the other, write things you would like to change or improve. Sometimes, it is surprising that we find a quality that we think is endearing but we still want to change it like helping out others. Everytime someone I helped talks rudely to me or says or does something bad about me, I feel like giving it up but then I find, it is the quality that makes me a better human being than I otherwise would be. SO, I choose to keep it. Hold on to such qualities. Work on other qualities one by one. Do not try to do it all at once. Prioritize. Start with one thing and work on it until it changes for better such as reducing weight is my top priority now. Next thing will be to make my verbal skills in English better. You have to choose your own priorities. Once you think, you have done enough, move on to next thing. Don't try to be perfect for it will take a lifetime but do enough to satisfy yourself. Make a goal that if I reach this level, I will move to next thing. Highlight your accomplished goal with golden marker for that is an achievement. Hope it helps.

Answer 2

Respect yourself first. Develop a good hobby which is widely accepted in the society. WHen you wake up every morning, say to yourself loudly that you are the best looking person in the world and you are at your best that day. Wish every one you know, including those persons whom you hate.

hatress brings a tinge of bad face which would make you look ugly. so forget any enimity if you have.

try meditation every morning.

Answer 3

It's taken me a long time to figure this out. All you have to do is try every day to make some small improvement. If you want to increase your knowledge, then learn something every day. If you want to have friends, then put yourself in a position to be a friend to someone else. Maybe it's my age talking ;) but it's a sign of youth to think that we can have results in a day. We have to try every day and then we will make our own luck.

Answer 4

Hi there,

A person can first start loving one self so that the person can love others. One can feel better if one is confident about ones self so you should start believing in your self first. One has to be kind and considerate to all to be a better human being. Above all one has to be thankful to GOD all the times cause it is him who has given us such a beautiful life, such beautiful surrounding and once we start appreciating everything that we have and start loving everyone around us we be become better humans.

Answer 5

Rid yourself of bitterness and unforgiveness. Smile more, be kinder to others, put the needs of others before yourself. Do random acts of kindness and take the time to brighten up anothers days.

Allow your heart to be changed by God and walk with a sense of hope and expectation for the future.

Answer 6

first of all, she have to admit to herself that she need reformation. changed attitude, complete or further her education. socialize among friends, upgrade her life style, get motivated, attend seminars for personal development, dedicate herself for physical fitness satisfaction, and check with her doctor if it relates to physiological or health wise..

unless you are talking about emotionally, she needs to purify her heart, she need to pray for a much needed guidance to the right path and to help her cleanse her wave of thoughts.

Answer 7

Get all dressed up as if you were going somewhere special (but don't over do it). Then go shopping or get your nails done. Try to take a good friend along.

Answer 8

Educate yourself properly

Answer 9

you ned not do nething except for believing in your own strong point. If you know your plus points and only lack confidence, contact me....
i will help you get your confidence back....

Answer 10

Be self-innovative - you've got the power : )