i told him i dont do drugs. and once i saw him in the bathroom with a knife hitting the wall. hes 13. what should i do? should i tell on him?
2006-11-05 16:39:16 · 18 answers · asked by Fresh and in the flesh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You could go to one of your school counselors or principles and they would know exactly what to do without letting the other guy know you 'told' on him.
2006-11-05 16:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For smoke weed...if you dont want to do it even he/she is your classmate, then don't. If that person makes fun of you because of your belief (not taking drugs) or dont want to be friends with you...then that person is not a true friend of yours. But if that person respects you, then leave just as that. That's my opinion anyway. About the knife, I think he is probably in a 'bad' situation (inside him)? try talking to him slowly or get some help. Or perhaps tell his parents? Or his concerned friends....
2006-11-06 00:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by photographer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you not smoking weed and giving in to peer pressure. Its not worth ruining your life for some strange dumb feeling. I'd not persay tell on him directly about hitting the wall with the knife. let a teacher know there is someone that is damaging the wall. Usually teachers will do their own investigative work anyway regardless if you tell them who is doing it anyway they wanna catch them in the act. Chances are if you tell the teacher that you saw them do it then the teacher is going to tell that student you tattled. And tattling isn't looked upon wonderful among other students.. it might create more problems for you. Try to avoid this student if you can.
2006-11-06 00:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you decide to help him, it's as simple as going to the school counselor, and telling them to be discreet so there is no implications for you.
That way, since he is still under legal age, his parents would probably have a right to know if their son is in need of help. I mean, there's also the issue of him putting himself in danger when he goes to score the stuff aswell. It's a bigger issue when you really look at it. He's too young to wind up in some jail cell if it can be avoided now.
Whatever you decide about him, good on you for saying no to drugs. It might seem like fun now, but when you wake up one day and you've realised you've just wasted a good part of your life and you can never get it back, it doesnt seem so cool anymore.
Good luck........
2006-11-06 01:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by harttattoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh, hitting the wall with a knife is strange, it could be the drugs, or he might have an anger problem. either way, its a good idea to seek advice from an adult. Go to your school councellor about it. He/She will know just what to do.
as far as taking drugs goes? dont even go there. it might start off with just a little curiousity and giving it a go coz someone persuaded you, but ive seen it time and time again end so so so badly. its best just to steer clear.
be a friend, talk to your friend, but keep yourself safe. talk to school counsellor.
2006-11-06 00:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you a friend? Maybe talking to him would be beneficial, explaining that he may need psychological help. I don't think the weed really has anything to do with his hitting a wall with a knife, but I also don't think he is totally in his right nor his left mind.
2006-11-06 00:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you don't wanna smoke straight up. He's too young to be smoking anyway but just steer clear of him. Especially if you really don't wanna smoke. Once u start smoking you'll wanna smoke all the time and ur grades will plummet and you won't wanna do anything u used to do anymore and you'll turn into a bad boy. Which I love. But just don't smoke.
2006-11-06 00:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a guidance counselor at school and tell them. IT will help you stay off of drugs (Congratulations!). Also, they will know better than to squeal on you for talking about it.
Good luck, I respect your decisions for yourself! I got into the party crowd when I was younger, and it really did end up with trouble.
2006-11-06 00:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the Principal or the police. The reason why drug use is able to spread in schools is because kids are afraid to report this crime.
2006-11-06 00:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell... In the long run, it's the better decision...
If this person continues along the path he's on, things can get much worse than casual drug use and playing with knives.
2006-11-06 00:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by RED MIST! 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋