2006-11-05 16:28:17 · 12 answers · asked by Chi-Girli 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only with courage and time. Hopefully with help from your family.
2006-11-05 23:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by ideflitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad died suddenly a little over two years ago and I didn't deal with it well at all. Make sure you talk about it with others, perhaps even see a counselor for a few sessions to help you work through the pain. I bottled everything up for two years and then had an extreme mental breakdown. I was pretty much having a nervous breakdown. I'm not on anxiety/depression meds and seeing a counselor every other week. I feel much better now and will hopefully be back to normal by six months. So don't be like me. express your feelings about the death and let others help you cope with the pain.
2006-11-06 00:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard...so make sure you hold onto all those good memories, i lost my mother who was my best friend, i could talk to her about anything she always seem to have the answers...it's been almost a year, and some days i look at her pictures, and remember her sunshine smile, and it makes me smile, i remember her spirit, she was so strong spiritually, and a woman of faith, she was small, and fearless, and when i think of these things, it gives me a little moments peace to think, and know how privileged i am that a woman like this was my mother...she lives in my heart...there will be days when you shrink in pain, but don't be afraid to grieve in which ever way you want, and make no apologies for it....and there will be days when it gets more easier for you....embrace those days...for with time everything will heal eventually, and think of it like this the family member you have lost would not want you to lay down and die, because of the pain of losing them, but to live and remember them, and keep their memories in your heart. God Bless.
2006-11-06 01:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will make it better. I'm 46 and I lost my mom when I was just out of high school. That was over 30 years ago and sometimes I hear a song or smell the perfume that she use to wear or remember something from my childhood and I'll get weepy. Time eases the hurt that you feel. Trust me, it will get better. You'll never forget and some days will be worse or better than others, but you will get through it I promise.
2006-11-06 00:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by vik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI Friend,
There are 2 thinks to be remembered
1.Every one who Born's should one day leave this world...(willing or Unwilling)
2.Death means one had finished his Sin (One who dies earlier means,he is going to heaven as the Sin was over)
If someone dies you pray God the following
"Give PEACE to the Soul"
"In future i will try to make his Family members happy"
2006-11-06 02:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Singam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just lost my dad a little over a year ago to cancer. I have to admit their were and still are times I have a hard time dealing with it, grief counceling is a good one. The times I am dealing with it in a good way, I keep in mind that he is looking over me and watching over me and my kids and grandkids. I believe in an afterlife on the other side and that he may have left his body but his spirit is in heaven and now and then he comes and visits us. I can smell his pipe tobacco he use to smoke, I don't smoke so I know it's him..smiles. So to make it simple there is no easy way to deal with it, you just have to get on with you life and deal with it good or bad..smiles. Friends and Family help big time to...so let them help you too..smiles. Like I have been told by one of my friend who lost her mom at 16yrs. old. you heal with Time.
Take Care
2006-11-06 00:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard because my oldest brother died six years ago a day before my birthday and back the i was fourteen i didnt understand it back then but im 18 and i cry mostly everyday because i no longer have him in my life
2006-11-06 01:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say try going to a greaf share group or going to threpy for it.
Losing a loved one is very pain full.I know I've lost a few
2006-11-06 00:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by ilbillie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hard question, No easy answer, nor is it just black and white.
You just have to do the best you can, take one day at a time and keep them alive in your heart. Always remember the good times.
~T~
2006-11-06 00:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remeber its ok to cry. my grandfather died almost 3 years ago and still there i times i brake down in tears. time heals the pain but theres always a scar left. remeber its not the end of the world there still alot of ppl you love that are still alive and with you
2006-11-06 04:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by warlord_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋