Relocated to be with high school sweetheart.Left Va,Beach and moved back to Wash,DC.Keep in mind my 10 yr old daughter.Since I've been here my truck has been stolen and what has he done?Of course did a 360 degree turn!When he's nasty he's really nasty,when he's nice he's really nice.Well they found my truck and it's being repaired.I'm wanting to go back to Va like yesterday.Was with my daughter's father for 12 yrs and I think I was looking for something to hold on to.I know stupid!!!My thing is how do I leave and not have no drama,he don't hit me or nothing like that,but his mouth is real sharp!I've been hinting that I am not happy here and nothing has gone right for me sense I've been here,and he acts like he don't even here me.He went and bought my daughter a puppy 2day little things like that.He's good to her but He's an azz as far as me him goes.Please help!
2006-11-05 15:43:27 · 14 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well your not married to him so just get up and go. His only doing the nice things for your daughter so if you do leave he thinks your daughter will pitch a fit. More drama for you. Leave and just explain things to her that you don't feel his the right one for you both. Have you even tried to talk to your 10yr old about him? You might want to , who knows she may tell you things you may not want to hear. He could be doing all these things for her for other reasons. Not to sound suspicious of him but think about it and talk to her. Make sure she knows it's OK for her to tell you anything even if it she thinks it will upset you, you still want her to know she can tell you anything. Make sure she knows if he ever touches her in a way that makes her feel funny or uncomfortable she needs to tell you.
2006-11-05 16:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u because if u are letting the drama of an 18 yr old seep into ur life then I feel sorry for ur child. Get the hell out of there if you are not happy or stick around and see what happens. You dont have many choices. Are you working or have any money to move? Either way do something u dont need advice.... maybe u needed it 11 yrs ago on sex and marriage
2006-11-05 15:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by GRISSIOM PURE GENIUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person in all of this I feel sorry for is YOUR daughter -- being exposed to such drama and irresponsible, immature conduct on your part is HORRIBLE for her to have to ENDURE at her age -- and then you keep changing men -- what in the WORLD are you THINKING -- that everything is ok -- that you can just go back and things be as they were?
LIFE doesn't work out that way -- that is for sure. YOUR daughter deserves a STRONG, Independent and RESPONSIBLE Mother -- one who does not just up and go from man to man.
2006-11-05 17:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave, pack your things and move back with your daughter. You have all right to be happy and if he is not making you happy is time to move on and start from scratches. If you don't want any drama, just leave when he is not home, and write a not and leave it where he can find it, just make sure to write down that you don't want him to contact you in any way. Good Luck!
2006-11-05 15:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, the same way you went to DC, workit out in reverse. It sounds like I am over simplifying it but that isthe only way you need to do it. if you think of the pain and hurt, your wil be there for the rest of your unhappy life.
Take a step and say I am unhappy and move on to wherever you want to be -puppy or no puppy, you gotta move on.
Good luck!
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2016-11-28 20:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by laranjeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor 10 year old daughter. How confused she must be.
2006-11-05 15:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by CHUCK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go back to VA. and ditch the sharp tongue devil a little understanding from him would go alone way in helping you to adjust but sence he wants to be an *** leave him .
2006-11-05 15:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can relate my mum and dad are just like that and they got angry 'just the same. give yourself some space and talk to him and your daughter together after youv'e talked give him a chance if that doesn't work then try marage counciling and if that still doesn't work then get a devorce
2006-11-05 15:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another case of you didn't look before you leaped. pack your bag and your daughter, and hit the road, this man feels more trapped than you do
2006-11-05 15:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋