if i had sex and had an unwanted pregnancy
can i just tell my parents i was raped to avoid being crushed by them
2006-11-05 15:23:17 · 6 answers · asked by janice b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I wouldn't tell them you were raped because you will have to answer alot more questions than you think. You cound even end up getting the police envolved!!! I was raped when I was 12 and my parents talked me into going to the police. We had to get a lawyer and everything. Plus you don't want to lie about such a thing and have other women who really were raped not be belived because you lied. So many women have to prove they were raped all ready, don't make it harder on them they've been through enough!
Another thing is your parents will prob be harder on you as far as your freedom if you say you were raped. When you get raped you didn't have a choice, so they will try to protect you alot more than if the know you just made a bad decision.
If you just tell them the truth, and say your sorry then, yes they are prob going to be really mad and watch you like a hawk around boys from now on, but it will be better in the long run.
Do you really want to live with a lie like that? If you tell the truth and act like an adult then they may be more likely to treat you like one.
And get on some form of birh control. Use a condom, do you know how many VD's there are out there?
2006-11-09 13:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell them you were raped. That just opens up a whole set of problems. Just tell the truth. Parents can be more understanding than you think. Sure it is probably going to hurt them but if they love you then they will stand by you no matter what.
2006-11-05 23:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because that is falsifying information. If you were raped, then they will want to press charges and you could send an innocent man to jail. Then when the law finds out that you lied - then YOU go to jail.
If you were responsible enough to have sex - then you should be responsible enough TO TELL THE TRUTH.
2006-11-06 03:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!!!
you could end up getting an innocent person in trouble do you not watch the news or read papers???
are you insane do you know what rape victims go through?
why the hell would you tell a lie like that?
if your old enough to have sex be old enough to protect yourself if not take responsibility for your own actions
2006-11-06 11:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by mum_2_many 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will probably call the police.....then a whole new set of problems could come up for you.
2006-11-05 23:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by veroanique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO BIG MISTAKE.
2006-11-06 01:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by sweetangel7898 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋