2006-11-05 15:15:23 · 15 answers · asked by ashrafny2004 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-11-05 15:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by -=FLEXJr=- 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's fine . . . nothing wrong with it. There can be certain things you can do with a bisexual girlfriend that you can't with a straight one (threesome, etc.), but whether those things are an upside to you or a downside or neutral because you won't do them depends on you. But her being bisexual means nothing- just that she's also attracted to girls/boys.
Talk to her to get things in the open and know what you're getting yourself into to see if it's an upside, downside, or not that big a deal.
2006-11-05 15:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by cando_86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuality, to me, is a bridge to deciding what you really want. But thats my opinion. Im sure alot of people would disagree with me.
Having a bisexual girlfriend may seem like a fantasy come true for you right now, but think about it for a minute. She is bisexual, meaning she likes both sexes. So whos to say she isnt going to go find another man to sleep with? Is that going to be ok with you? Or are you going to be insecure that he is better than you? And, furthermore, are you going to be insecure that the women she chooses to sleep with is better than you? Because if your not, your TOTALLY kidding yourself! Please believe that most women can go down on another women better than any man, because we know what to do. Same thing as with a man going down on another man.
Heres what I think you should do... if you care.... Tell her you are ok with her orientation, but if you are to be in a relationship, it needs to be monogomous. If its not, its really not a relationship, its a fck buddy!
2006-11-05 15:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you feel about her potential desire to
pursue intimacy with another lover while in a relationship with you. She may not choose to because of your relationship , but then again she may . This is something you may want to define with her before it happens and agree to bounderies if there are to be any or not.
2006-11-05 15:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by 2K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on how you feel. see if you are wanting to settle down with her then you will always be wondering if she would be satisfied better by someone who has the other "equipment". however if you fancy it she's the kinda girl that is perfect for a 3some. so the question is how do u feel?
2006-11-05 15:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "old folks" had a saying:
"Birds of feather stick together". Probably not good.
Good luck. Pops
2006-11-05 15:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do you mean is it good to have a bi friend If he or she is your friend who gives a **** what they do in the privacy of a bedroom....If this person was really your friend this would not even be on your mind....
2006-11-05 15:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by deb s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's "trysexual" then YES there's something wrong. If just bi, consider yourself the lucky one who she has chosen to try to learn about guys with.... :)
2006-11-05 15:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on both of you if you don't mind that she is attracted to women and she is willing to be monogamous if that is what you want then yes it can be good
2006-11-05 15:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is, if you like threesomes with two girls. My exgirlfriend was a lesbian when we broke up.
2006-11-05 15:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by l2wh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yea they r the best i should no but im gurl so yea ~i love bi gurls ~ lol
2006-11-05 15:25:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋