If you were me,How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail? Please help! Thankyou!?

Question

Sexy,

Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.

I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.

I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.

With awestruck love,

Pumpkin

Answer 1

=she is cold and will end up sucking the life out of you. You may be impressed with her smarts, but you know I am right. You deserve an emotionally un-constipated person who will love you and appreciate you and not treat you as a boy toy.

Answer 2

I must admit that the email sounds very eloquent, and seems to be carefully composed.

But, are you sure this is your girlfriend?

I'm sorry, but the message sounds emotionless to me. Almost like it was not written by someone you know, much less your girlfriend.

However, having said that; I base this off of female intuition only, and not fact.

I have no idea the type of relationship the two of you have, or how you communicate to one another.

Also, I do not know what you said to her, in your last message.

But more importantly, the reason I might not be sensing any feeling behind the words, could be simply due to what she states as: "a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections."

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The only thing I could recommend, is to look inside yourself.
* Do you feel like these are the words of someone that cares about you?
* Do they make you feel warm, and comforted?
* What was your initial response, when you first read the email?

It sounds like to me though, you already know the answer to this question.

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I wish you luck in love, and I hope you find what you seek. :-)

Answer 3

This is supposed to be an e-mail from ur g/f ???????
Strangest love letter I ever read, from someone who signs off, "with awestruck love." Sounds more like a theme composed by a psychiatrist or psychologist or someone trying to make a very BIG impression with their knowledge of words. Tell her to come down to earth ! If ur message to her was as equally highbrow, then why r u asking for help.

Answer 4

Man, you got a problem! If she's serious, you gotta deal with it because she sounds psycho. Best thing is to just say it flat out: I am not attracted to you, and your letters scare me. I want to end our friendship.

If she's being sarcastic, probably you should say the same thing - I want to end our friendship.

In the first situation she will resist and maybe even become a stalker. In the second, she might fight with you, but will probably go away.

Wow, buddy. I don't envy you. This is the thing I always hated about chicks.

Answer 5

I'm sorry to say but...this sounds rather sarcastic. The problem is I don't know her personality, so I can't be certain.

Then there's the fact that she states "maybe we can talk or chat later"...that just doesn't sound right to me, if she's so taken with you why is she so illusive (even as a loner)?

Answer 6

Sounds like she is really trying to butter you up.
I mean how awesome can someone be.
She is very taken by whatever you have offered her. She is very deeply moved.
Sounds like she may be trying to impress you with words of over board kindness, that may not be needed.

She has thrown you off course here.
I don't like to say it, but kind of sounds like she is really giving you the B.S.

Answer 7

Awestruck Love? Run! Tell you have Herpes 11, are bisexual, and the loveslave of a local evangalist.

Answer 8

This is kind of a confusing email, if you can make it a bit simpler i may be able to reply its really hard to understand, but it seems like she likes you, i think, but i might just be confused more than i think i am

Answer 9

Why does she talk like that?She writes like a guy if you ask me. No emotion whatsoever

Answer 10

I guess its a very thorough thank you for your help. Don't reply. She says she'll get back with you. If she doesn't, don't sweat it.