If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail? Please help! thanks.?

Question

Sexy,

Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.

I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.

I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.

With awestruck love,

Pumpkin

Answer 1

Emails are suppose to be private and for the person who it was sent to eye's only. By posting them to others to see you are not respecting your girlfriend. I understand you don't know what to write, but you know her better than we do, so whatever you say she would understand and like. Just give it a few days or a few weeks and what you want to tell her will come to you. That's what I do when I get an email and I don't know what to say. Don't stress about it. Besides, if you wait a couple of days instead of replying right away when they get an email from you they get excited, so yeah, just wait a few days or weeks and clear out your head and email her back. Good luck and hope I helped.

Answer 2

Gee... I wish I could get a letter like that.

My thoughts are that you opened up to her, in detail. Most men have a problem with that. Check out the guys answers and the women answers on Yahoo answers and you will find that the guys usually have shorter answers, and even the longer answers say less than the shorter ones. This could be the guys she has been dealing with. You stand out alone in a crowd. She credits you with insight. She feels she can have a decent conversation with you and exchange ideas. She can learn from you. You can give her insight on things and you can agree to disagree on others. Her identity is not threatened by you. You have opinions but you are not opinionated.

I think your sitting fat, dumb, and happy. Go for it.

Answer 3

I wish I had a GF that could appreciate and recognize those things in me, whether or not she had them or not. It's good that she is aware of them. She definitely seems intelligent enough and thoughful to respond in depth to whatever you say. Lucky you.

Answer 4

What the hell is wrong with you that you keep repeatedly posting your girlfriends emails? I'm not even reading this one. I just hope if they really are from your girlfriend that she somehow finds them posted on the net one day. LMAO.. you're not quite right in the head are you dear?

Answer 5

Don't answer it. She sounds overly wordy and emotional and a bit bizarre. Does she always communicate this way? This would drive me nuts!

Answer 6

That she likes to use big words and talk alot.

Answer 7

sounds weird i mean what is she a robot or what?