i met this guy about 2 years ago now and we became really close our familys were always together i called his mom, mom and he called my mom, mom he was always there from me when i ever i needed him over time i started to fall for him then i moved3,000 miles away we dont get to talk as much and it has been 4 months sence i have seen him i miss him so much do you think i will ever get over him?
2006-11-05 14:32:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I feel bad for you. I'm so sorry that you have lost someone in your life that sounds like a soul mate. I hope you will always be friends with this person even if you are not "in love with each other or anything like that." I would not accept loosing this person in my life if I was you. Not with computers and pen and paper and phones. I would talk to my Mom about it and I would contact him and tell him how you feel, that he is important to you and that you would like to remain friends even 3000 miles apart. Good friends are worth the effort.
2006-11-05 14:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by skooter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you get over him or not is entirely up to you.
You, and nobody else but you alone determine what goes on in that head of yours.
You determine what you focus on, and how long for.
You may have loved this dude, and you may still feel that way. But you are responsible for your own actions and thoughts.
If you let your thoughts control you, your pain will last for a long time and may impact in the way you live your future. Think of it: your future relationships may be tainted by the past. Nobody would compare to him (and all that sort of rubbish).
Take charge of your mental focus and move on. I take it you're young. There is a long way ahead of you and, someday, you will look back to your life and cherish the past experiences... just don't get permanently hooked in the past.
Will you ever get over him?
Answer: Only if you let yourself get over him. The decision is yours!
2006-11-05 14:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by SkinnyJeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep yourself busy, yes you will get over him. The question is, do you want to get over him? It sounds like you had a great relationship with him; why do you want to let it go?
LDR's can work, I've had several, but one in particular was 16 years ago, and I married the guy. We're still married.
If you want to get over him, you will find ways to do so; if not, don't. Contact him on a friendly basis first, see how he feels about you, then take it from there. Good luck.
2006-11-05 14:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail or writ the guy. If you have that strong of a connection chances are he feels the same way. Who knows what your future will hold in the way of transportation or even if you two will end up at the same colleg!* Smile and be happy knowing that you are both looking up into the sky and thinking about each other..Love knows no distance, no age, no color, and can never be taken from our hearts. LOL, princess
2006-11-05 14:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by N_UrDreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably never forget him and unfortunately there's no magic button you can push to make the pain go away.....I know you've already heard this a 1000 X's, that you'll get over it! This is true, you will, in time. Just take one day at a time and eventually the pain will turn to a pleasant memory. LOL
2006-11-05 14:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will get over him, or eventually if you don't and he feels the same way you do you will get together. Even if you both go different ways you will always remember and cherish the relationship you had. In time (perhaps a long time) it will be a fond memory of your childhood. Sometimes life bites... you are experiencing one of them.
2006-11-05 14:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definitely not get over that kind of connection. Over time, you will miss him less and less though. Try getting connected again and see if the feelings are there. See if the feelings are from being alone period or this guy.
2006-11-05 14:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life happens. Sometimes situations get the best of relationships. Does he feel the same way? Ask him, find out and do not be afraid of it. Chances are he misses you too. Also distance changes people. So don't wait too long.
2006-11-05 14:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by bouiver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell when you stop missing him...Are you comfotable with him in anyways? Is your communication w/ him still open? Talk to him.. Open a topic related towhat you feel...Given the chance to talk it out, do it...If not ,stimulate him to talk about that topic, like missing a friend, longing to see someone...If you rarely talk, then make your talk w/ each other a quality one, have a meaty talk... I could relate to your situation...but its a matter of diverting you attention to something productive if by time being your longing for him is not resolve.
2006-11-05 15:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time holds the answers to everything. But this didn't really have an ending, so the answer is no. But you'll probably be able to look at it differently later, and appreciate it.
2006-11-05 14:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋