well from 1992 to 1998 i thought i was gay and was in a relationship with a woman we broke up (she broke my heart). i met my husband in 1999 and have been together with him for almost 7 years this january.. after all this time i still sometimes feel confused or guilty about the whole experience.. i don't feel attraction towards women anymore. but i still masturbate to women and men both. am i bi?
2006-11-05 13:38:34 · 9 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would view you as being bi. You masturbate to women without having any attraction to them? Don't think you really believe that or you wouldn't have asked the question. Yes, it's possible to be a married bisexual who doesn't want to have sex with anyone of your same gender (or even the oposite gender) -just as it's possible to be gay or straight & not want to have sex with anyone other than your partner. The fact that you don't want to have sex with someone doesn't necessarily mean that you don't find them sexually attractive. You've had sex with both man & woman, enjoyed the sex with both & are now married to a man, but still sometimes masturbate to women -that sounds bi to me.
2006-11-05 14:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's for me to say what you are, that's for you to decide. There IS however, such a thing as being bi, being curious too, which is different. You may be married to a man right now and say that you do not feel attraction towards women, however you then say that you masturbate to women and men both, ummmmm ermmmm hello? does that tell you anything? ;)
tell me something...... if a gorgeous woman were to walk in the room and slowly strip in front of you, and then pull you into her arms, push you up against the wall, press her knee into your crotch, lean over and slip her tongue into your mouth ... that wouldn't turn you on at all? lol.. if not.. then ok, you might not be bi. but I betcha by golly you still have a curiousity.
hehe...
Myst
2006-11-05 14:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Myst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still bi. Women still turn you on,you just found happiness with a guy. I don't see a problem with that. Masterbation is one thing that made me realize that I was bi. When I wanted to get in the mood or masterbate I used to think about women and what I wanted to do to them.......Ok time for me to get off work and go home and my girl!Lol!!
2006-11-05 14:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a independent viewpoint , I prefer to think of of each little thing as a "twist of fate" ; the strolling guy or the candy lover , they have been only best a typical existence while undesirable incidents befell to them ending their lives . A extra religious viewpoint potential that all human beings is destined to fulfill their fates no count how annoying they war , particular is a comforting thought yet no longer all religions settle for this ideology .
2016-10-21 08:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by titman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You smell like burnt pop-corn...N e ways....I think you are who you say you are...I don't believe people are gay one day and then straight the other...you are probably bi-sexual. Man, that is a long time to be with a dude and no woman my heart goes out to ya
2006-11-05 13:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Namaste 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont feel attraction from females why do u still masturbate to them maybe you you confuse i think if you masturbate to the sight of them it is some attaction still there and you need to be with a female to see where your feeling are just my guess u are bi but hiding your feeling from your hubby
2006-11-05 14:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by lusthard516 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at the least you're still curious. I like both women and men, and everyone else along the gender spectrum.
2006-11-05 13:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea! You are Bi. Just accept who you are and what you are. You are a fine person and that's all this world wants you to be.
2006-11-05 13:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're bi
2006-11-05 14:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋