i really need this?

Question

well first, im bi
i think thats the first time ive ever publically announced that...
but i told my guy.. well guy at the time.. and ive said it to one other person.. but i think he thought i was kidding. so how do i tell people. seriously. these people arent going to think the same about me. im scared ill loose people. im scared everyone will forget me... i dont even kno wat else.
i never thoguht this would happen, but it has, its here and i think theres a few ppl that should know. id really like to talk to some girls, or guys who are bi. yahoo sn: illstayifyouloveme
so any advice...?

peace out love
kris

Answer 1

I think my answer is the best and i should get the points kiddo

Answer 2

It seems to strange to think that people have a problem with bisexuality. Obviously they do not know much about sexual orientation and how someone's sexual orientation changes through their life time.

Just explain to people that you are exactly the same person only you are being brave enough to tell people that you are bisexual, as opposed to telling people you are one hundred percent heterosexual. Also I would perhaps contact some bisexual support groups, either online or in your state and get some support on coming out as bisexual.

The most important thing is that you are happy in yourself. If you are happy and have a good sense of self empowerment, forget about the negative people in your life. For those people, such as family members or people who you want to remain friends with, give them reading material (perhaps Kinsey to begin with).

I have included a couple of websites where you can start searching for coming out support groups.

Answer 3

Well' I am bi also. My friends found out when we went to a bar together and I saw this chick and grabbed her hand and took her to the dance floor. I grabbed the back of her hair and kissed her. I already knew she was gay. Then we woke up at my friends house. And now we have been together for 9 months. My best friend was just like "I can't belive your gay." But she never put me down. She is still my best friend and everyone else was ok with it too. I'm sure everyone was like "oh my god, i can't belive Amanda has a girlfriend." But now they are over it and I haven't lost any friends over it. This is a time when you will find out who your REAL friends are. Well e-mail me. I'm peacin out! Later.

Answer 4

Anyone who would abandon you because of your sexuality is not worth your time. It's hard to go through but you need to be true to yourself. At the very least you've accepted your sexualityf, which is what's most important. As for everyone else, you'll just have to decided yourself whether or not your trust them enough to tell them, if they are your friends they should at the very least be able to accept you. If they don't then you need to find someone who will.

Answer 5

congratulations on publicly announcing your sexuality. sometimes it is hard for people to understand and they think it is a joke. i know my mother did at first. i think sometimes it takes them time to recognise it for one reason or another. maybe they are in denial or they haven't seen your bi side.

if you lose people then they weren't really worth having in the first place. a friend is not a true friend unless they accept you fully. as for family - they should always be there for you.

i think maybe they have to see you with a guy/girl before they believe it. sometimes it's the hardest thing believing it.

Answer 6

I don't get the part where you think you have to announce it to the whole world. What is that?

So what I say, usually people of like know one another that's what they say about gay people anyway, I guess if that is the lifestyle you are choosing at the moment don't expect us all to clap our hands and say yay she's gay she's straight, honestly there is just not that many people who care you know. You need to grow up a little I think.

Answer 7

I'm praying for you.