I have tried to get my husband to care about our marriage for years. I get no response from him. I feel we have been emotionally & physically separated for about 2 years. He moved out this month. A divorce take 6 months to a year. How long should you wait before starting to date again? I like this guy, but I don't want to seem heartless, like I didn't try with my husband. I have been alone for so long. I really want to get back into the dating world!!
2006-11-05 12:50:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you feel comfortable enough to date and you know that your marriage is not going to get back together, then I say go for it. Only YOU will know the right time to get back out there and start dating. If you like a guy and want to go out with him... go for it. Your husband has moved out and will probably move on soon (if he hasn't already)... you need to do the same!
2006-11-05 12:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by readysteadystop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can sense your soreness. right this is my suggestion. Your very injury at this 2d or perhaps tho your lonesome and % companionship, step lower back somewhat until now you do something you would be apologetic approximately. you need to get previous your ex-spouse and comprehend that she isn't the only for you because of the fact if she love you she does no longer have left you. the reality she dated so quickly after the divorce, tells me she wasn't waiting to calm down once you acquire married. end chatting together with her, end the e-mail and placed her on your block checklist because of the fact all she is doing is twisting the knife she has put in your heart. i might provide your self time to heal. you need to be honest with any female you date and you do no longer ought to combine a rebound courting right into a sorry difficulty. Get the ex-spouse out of your life and be comfortable approximately commencing any new romantic relationships good now.
2016-11-27 21:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree that you should check and see if there's any odd law where you live about that, but really I think you're just dealing with an issue of whether the dating is any ammuniton for court or a custody battle (if you have kids). But really I think you can date if you want regardless of where you are with the separation/divorce. You just can't get married until your divorce is granted (and please tell me you would not jump right into that again!)
2006-11-05 13:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're coming from, but always consider the other person...would you want to drag them into an unsuspecting situation that often gets unexpectedly messy (divorce). That is not a good way to start a new relationship with someone. As lonely as you may be, it is often best to wait till you are completely free and clear.
2006-11-05 13:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by out of order 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should start dating when you meet someone worthy of you, I don't think there is a right or wrong time, I split up with my ex husband and about a month later I met someone who became very special to me, and we are now engaged. For me that just happened to be the right time and person, but I don't think there is a right or wrong about this, it's all up to you.
2006-11-05 22:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should not date until your divorce for two big reasons:
i think you should use this time to be alone -- you think you have been alone but you really haven't and breakups take so much out of you and we really don't realize it until we actually separate.
the other reason is because so many people separate, start dating and realize they miss their spouse even though they thought it was so bad and usually will try and make it work but either way until you are divorced bringing someone into your situation until it is done is not fair to the other person.
divorce then date
2006-11-05 13:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just make sure that whatever state you live in does not have rules regarding this matter. Your divorce could get messy if it's not final and you start dating. many states are going to the no fault rules, and it doesn't matter. ask your lawyer, if there's no legal problems that could occur, then jump right back into the dating game.
2006-11-05 13:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by catwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about if it's too early or too soon. my concern would be finding the right person.. because it's never to late or too early for the right person. your relationship with any ex you have has nothing to do with your future or present boyfriend's situation because it doesnt involve the same people. i advise you to have very high expectations. know others intentions.. and do not settle for less. if you have a bad feeling about a guy.. don't let it fly ha.. sometimes they test you to see what they can get away with and that leads to other disapointments. know what youre worth.. and make sure the guy is worthy. thanks...
2006-11-05 13:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel that you're ready......your hubby has moved out, if you're ready now...go for it! Every one has emotional and physical needs...don't deprive yourself of happiness....it sounds like you have been unhappy long enough. Always be true to YOU!
Good luck.
2006-11-05 13:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 saturdays or a new hair style
2006-11-05 13:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋