walk out and never look back, should i leave home and sever my family ties.? they all believe and said i'm trash, that i come from a long line of no good **** heads eversince i was a young orphan. they still do today. they never tried to say something nice when i was good. it seemed they were trying to keep me down all those years for some sick reason, jealousy. they just can't stand it if i do better than their own kids. they want me to come undone. they would really like that. providing me for all of those years was just an obligation for them, nothing more than that. so what is the right thing for me to do ?
2006-11-05 12:48:44 · 11 answers · asked by listlessbutdiligent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What I am going to suggest might be difficult. Might. First, recognize that God loves you. That is a fact. You are not a mistake. You are loved very much. Second, it is important for you to love your family. You don't have to like or enjoy how they behave. It is important for you to love them. Third, it is equally important for you to forgive them. You don't need to put up with being treated badly. But it is important for you to forgive them. Your relationships with others will be better if you can forgive those who hurt you. Again, you don't have to put up with being treated badly. You are not a doormat. You are a beloved human created by God for his honor and glory.
2006-11-05 12:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, are in a hard place right now. But, God makes no mistakes and he does not make trash either. You need support from someone you can trust. Search for that someone. Don't believe them and don't give them the satisfaction of ruining your life. Many people have had horrible upbringing and go on to lead very productive and good lives. You can too. They have the problem not you.May, I suggest to you that you go to a Church for help. Many people find that faith in Jesus has helped in their lives. He is one who will stick closer to you than a brother. And will not forsake you, even if your mother and father may forsake you. God Bless you and I pray that you find peace and that all the hardships you are experiencing now you will be able to help others in pain. When you give your heart to Jesus all that was in the past is forgotten, your old family ties don't matter because you belong to the family of God and will have a purpose for your life. I hope this helps you because it helped me years ago.
2006-11-05 21:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by angel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know your age, but you sure could contact social services. That sounds like verbal abuse. A social worker can give you some guidance. Or, if you are in school, visit your school counselor. Colleges have counselors and programs to help out too.
Above all remember this: God NEVER makes a mistake. Not ever. People sin because we are just that, people. Your parents sound nasty and I am sorry about that. Keep your chin up and do good for yourself, so that you may one day live on your own and support yourself in any situation. Blessings to you. :)
2006-11-05 20:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are,if you are older enough I would leave and stay with someone that would care for you until you can get on your feet,your family is doing deep damage to you that will stay with you for awhile,just hold your head up and do the best you can,and feel good about yourself,and let no one tell you different and you will be alright.
2006-11-05 20:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE ;but if your old enough move out on your on' God makes no mistakes were all here for a reason'are you getting in trouble a lot'is that why they feel that way if so try and be a better person;if you are not doing any thing wrong; to give them reason to feel that way 'then go.
2006-11-05 21:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like my own family. For your own sanity and self esteem, if you have the means to do it, your best bet would be to distance yourself from them. They will only drag you down or beat you down. For some reason people like to do that simply to make themselves feel better by degrading someone else. You don't need that, no one does. We all have value and if they don't see it, that's their prob. As long as you see the value in yourself, that's all that matters. Don't lose the faith and confidence in yourself.
2006-11-05 20:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them until you are able to move out and live your life on your own responsibly. Take what you can get, stay in school and try to go to college. My heart goes out to you and I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-05 20:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a photograph of your lower backside, post it in the area they most frequently pass by and have them kiss it with every passing.
2006-11-05 20:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by expatmt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prove to them that they are wrong. The best revenge is good living.
2006-11-05 20:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by ashashbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only person you need to believe in you is *you*
you are never alone. we all come from and are of God.
2006-11-05 20:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋