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2006-11-05 12:31:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

I am 15 and i am considering getting an abortion and i live in Alabama my mom wants me to get a DNA test done to determine the father...but i don't want to. It's a waste of money and it's pointless i know who he is...im not a whore

2006-11-05 12:41:37 · update #1

16 answers

No, I think no.

OK, go step by step. Your mother may want the test done because if it is positive it weighs a lot more than your word at the moment of showing the father the child is his. It is not a thing of being whore or not.

I assume he is not very willing to accept the child and the responsibilities of being a father, it is hard. I am doing this because you have thought about abortion so you might feel you lack support or feel unable to breed the baby by yourself.

NEVER NEVER NEVER do anything under a state of desperation! You would regret it and there is no way back. I do believe you can give the baby away.

Something I wonder is why are there still unwanted pregnancies, and why don't couples use contraception...do that the next time, what else can I say!

2006-11-05 13:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0 0

The only way to determine the father of a baby before it is born is to have an amniocentesis done and compare the results to a DNA sample collected from the potential father. The amniocentesis requires a very long needle being inserted through your belly to withdraw part of the amniotic fluid. It is not a test that doctors usually perform without a good reason as there is a risk of miscarriage and injury to the baby. In addition a potential father does not have to voluntarily give a DNA sample without a court order. So, based on that, it would be unlikely that your parent would be able to find out the father of your baby without your permission plus the permission of the person they think is the father. I do not know the abortion laws in Alabama, but some states do not allow a person under 16 to consent to an abortion without a parent's or a judge's permission. Please consider letting your baby live and make the ultimate sacrifice to give him or her up for adoption. Look under Abortion Alternatives in the yellow pages of your phone book for a Crisis Pregnancy Clinic in your area. They often will provide transportation to the clinic if you can not get there on your own. They will help you with the legal questions you may have and will give you information on adoption agencies. Often there are private homes or group homes where a pregnant teen can live, receive education, and support while waiting to give birth. As the birth mother, you may be able to choose your baby's adoptive parents. The adoptive parents will pay your expenses for doctor's visits and hospital costs. It is a good choice to consider for you and your baby. Please think about it.

2006-11-05 13:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0 0

If she is emancipated through a court of regulation, then she will be able to be considered an man or woman. there'll be no longer some thing absolutely everyone can do about her marrying absolutely everyone. as far as a DNA try, if she refuses, i do not imagine they can "make" her. All she has to do is lie and say she would not understand who the daddy is. I propose in the journey that they took it as far as suing one particular guy for statutory rape, they'd be able to get a court to order a DNA try. yet when she is over 16 though, I doubt there is a few thing that would properly be finished. they could ought to speak to a legal specialist. each and every state has that's personal rape and emancipation regulations. that's not authentic about emancipation in hardship-free words being for being pregnant. once someone is emancipated through a court, they're legally considered an man or woman. Their mom and father do not have any better rights over them. often this in hardship-free words applies to babies that are very on the fringe of 18 and are able to assisting themselves, elect to get maried or are babies over 18 that do not attend college and stay to inform the tale their personal, so the non custodial determine now no longer is obligated to proceed newborn help funds. those form of circumstances.

2016-10-16 07:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

yes- without consent- a court order would need obtained & be enforced to go through it. YOu would have to get yourself a good lawyer- also different states/provinces have different consent ages-where the parent if the teen is under a certain age- can still have her/his child tested. Where I am its 16- if there younger the parent can make them do it.. If older it would be the consent would be needed...
If its between the birth mother & birth father- either or can have a court ordered paternity testing...

2006-11-05 12:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by bugz 4 · 0 0

Without his consent requires a court order. Social services can force that issue if need be. The "father" can be requested to take the test voluntarily, but if he refuses these are some of the options.

2006-11-05 12:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0 0

No, but if you apply for state medical aid or food stamps the state may require a DNA, Paternity test before you receive benefits. Also if you seek child support they may require it. Any medical tests, procedures done to your baby must have your consent as the mother.

2006-11-06 00:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0 0

To my knowledge if the father is over 18 your parents do have the right to get a DNA being your underage but you have alot of legal options and i don't know what yours are good luck..

2006-11-05 16:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That can depend on the laws of your particular state. However if the person is older than 18 the parents cannot legally do anything.

2006-11-05 12:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0 0

Your mom could go get some equipment and do the DNA test herself, if she was smart.

2006-11-07 11:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Corey Ward 2 · 0 0

No. However, the court can be petitioned by the father. Please try to be there for your pregnant teen. Why do you want to go the route of "without her consent"? This is your grandchild and paternity can be established in time. Where is the love!

2006-11-05 12:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 1 1

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