What do you women find more attractive... a guy that has a lot of money but doesn't talk about it and show it off or a guy that drives a nice car and shows it off a little bit... but not bragging? .... like if u met a rich guy would u prefer to think he's poor and like him and then find out he's rich?
2006-11-05 12:27:59 · 23 answers · asked by private0909 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I'm not even going to touch on the subject of whether or not women should care about money, because that ISN'T WHAT YOU'RE ASKING, and I realize this.
Between the two choices you're presenting, I'd say it doesn't matter. What has always bothered me are men who brag or boast about assets they have to get attention, or as a show of establishing their character/place. A man who thinks his money is what makes him who he is is not only ignorant, but shallow! (and we won't touch on "daddy's money" types, because you're addressing women, so I'm assuming we're talking about MEN, not boys).
I was seeing a guy for a few months who drove an incredibly nice car and often spent outrageous money on gadgets, and offered frequently to spend time with me taking me out or to expensive restaurants. But, he was never disappointed or irritated to just sit at home and watch a movie eating icecream on the couch, or to sit under the stars and cuddle. He was a VERY hard worker, and I have never met another man who worked anywhere near as hard, or spoke so little of how much effort he put out!!! There wasn't a concieted bone in his body, and that's what made him attractive.
It's all about how you present yourself. A confident man won't flaunt his money, because he doesn't need material things to boast who he is. And as long as he'd confident and sweet, he can drive whatever he wants and lead a luxurious life style.
2006-11-07 13:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its simply jelousy and not anything extra. I used to be that girl. Last 12 months I used to be 5ft3 and weighed a hundred thirty. After 3 children, I used to be fairly short of to be that thin lady I hated such a lot. So, I made a couple of functional alterations and now Im 108 and not jelouse of different skinny women. But I can see how different larger females close me out in a way,too, specifically once they recognise I have three children underneath five. For many years I felt responsible for wasting weight however then I remind myself, I labored tough, I deserve it and I need to believe well approximately it. So do you.
2016-09-01 07:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of Humor and Personality are First!!!!!! If you find out the guy is RICH (later) that's an added bonus!! Like finding 20 bucks in a winter coat lol
2006-11-05 12:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by teachn2do 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real life is not the movies. If the situation in Coming to America were reversed and it was a poor guy who said he was rich eveyone would say that he is liar and should be dumped.
Money is not in itself attractive. However, is success is a desirable trait.
2006-11-05 12:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by dtshaff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if a guy has money or not, as long as he is responsible and can support himself. It is a sign of immaturity and insecurity for a guy to spend his money in "flashy" ways like having an expensive car and/or "showing off" - even if there's no verbal bragging, this is still a form of being a braggart. If you have money, invest it wisely and use it for IMPORTANT things (paying bills, buying a home, getting an education, saving for retirement, etc.).
2006-11-05 12:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by readysteadystop 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he made the money himself
he should be modest about it...
Unless he is just outlandishly rich.
Then live large! Who cares!
Darn the torpedoes!
If it is Mommy and Daddy's
money, then it really makes
a difference. There's a stigma
about that. Everything like cars,
clothes, etc. is just thought of
as being a 'spoiled brat.'
Just cool it. Be conservative.
.
2006-11-05 13:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a rich guy who doesn't brag but like luxurious things. Why pretend to be poor when your not!
2006-11-05 20:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I perfer to think he's poor and to have a relationship based on mutual respect, trust and love....and then if he ends up being rich it's just a plus to what he already has...A great personality!
2006-11-05 17:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by NY gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by understanding eachother as in person and accept the friendship the way it is its only than everythin could went right and build somthin very special which is hard to break and the rest comes easily ,,, so money cant get into any catagory of friendship coz when thiers money that means there will be always problems money VS friendship dont agree ,,,, or the money or the person but toghether as friends work toghether and build ur dreams,,,,,
2006-11-06 00:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by BrAvEy^ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I din't like guys that brag about how much money they have, etc
I would prefer to meet someone, based on their personality first,
then they woul be even more attractive
and then if they have a lo of money
GREAT BUT i WOULD NOT BASE ANY DECISION ON HIS MONEY
2006-11-05 12:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋