Or am i just a wuss/pansy etc etc.
2006-11-05 12:24:40 · 35 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It's ok to cry. Our culture tells every man to not show his feelings, but that's not a very healthy way to live. Showing your feelings, not being afraid to cry, makes you a stronger person than someone who can't show his feelings. You are stronger because you can deal with what is inside you. They can't.
PS: When a girl sees a man cry, she wants to comfort him, shower him with love and affection. If you want to get your girlfriend into a session of intense love-making (not just sex), do something emotional, like watch a movie, that will get those eye juices flowing. She won't be able to resist.
2006-11-05 12:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that you are a modern day guy who has feelings that can be touched by movies. There is nothing wrong with you. People who think you are a pansy or a wuss for doing this are social, repressive retards that need to get a clue.
2006-11-05 12:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal! I think it's great that you aren't afraid to show your feelings.
Some people may call you a wuss/pansy... but it is actually a turn on for a lot of women when a guy shows his sensitive side.
2006-11-05 12:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by MALicious 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what the sad parts of movies are supposed to do. Make you feel emotion. You are human and be proud of the fact that your senses aren't dulled to human emotion like so many in society today. With all of the talk shows and reality shows, and horror/violent movies that are viewed as entertainment it isn't any wonder so many people are desensitized. You aren't a weak because you have feelings and show them.
2006-11-05 13:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love a guy with a big heart. My hubby is a hunk and cries sometimes even at soap operas, lol. My 2 sons (25&27) are bigger hunks and cry during some movies. Who doesn't? It's not a girl thing....it's a human thing.
2006-11-05 12:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by fishermanswife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it shows emotional maturity, actually. If a man is comfortable enough with showing his emotions, then he's a step ahead of the game...by the way, my boyfriend, who is 45, cries at sad movies, etc. and he's a pretty tough guy!! I think it's just fine, as long as you don't continue to wail long after the show's gone off!!
2006-11-05 12:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A real man is in touch with who and what he is, as such he allows himself the full range of emotional responses. He also takes responsibility for those responses.
A real wuss is a guy who too afraid of what others will think and keeps his emotions locked away......................... usually until they explode all over everyone in aberrant behavior. Like rape, shooting people etc.
2006-11-05 12:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Black Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say it's "normal" because "normally" guys don't let themselves open up to the emotions that lead to crying, especially w/ movies. just b/c it's not "normal" doesn't mean it's not right. i feel like crying at a lot of dumb things in movies and such. not only sad parts, but inspirational parts too... have you ever seen rudy or field of dreams?... real tear jerkers.
2006-11-05 12:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by Yee Haw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal
2006-11-05 12:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by coop1958uk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how childish you are.Anyhow,crying is a sort of solution to relieve one's pressure from the life.Go ahead and just do it
however,you would be made fun of if a grown man cries in the public during the movie.which is usually be taken as a immature
person.
2006-11-05 12:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by peterwan1982 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋