2006-11-05 12:22:30 · 11 answers · asked by babyboomer62846 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol heres a story my coworker told me her husband settled a situation like that .One day he drove up to get he and the dad opened up the door and said dont come around my daughter no more and shoot his gun off in the air .You own a gun?I tell you noone would hit my daughter id be all over that guy like flys .
2006-11-05 12:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know this, why is your daughter still seeing this guy? If the guy she's seeing is her age..call his parents. They are 16 years old. Take control. I was in an abusive relationship when I was 15, and had my mother known, I know she could have stopped it. Obviously you already know, so do your job and step up. She needs a mother, not a friend.
2006-11-05 12:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have this boy arrested, it's still assault! This will be a life long problem, and get her into counseling now! Why is she even seeing this guy? And why are you allowing it? Have you been hit and put d? She learns by your behavior, if you allow it , it becomes the norm. If you can't afford counseling, there are many programs that cater to the financially unfortunate. Her self esteem will keep plummeting if you don't help her out of this....this kid is dangerous in every sense of the word. I know she probably thinks she's in love with him, but that's because he represents something familiar to her, please get her help now, before she continues down that road. You recognize the problem, help her solve it. Even if you never were abused, for some reason she thinks it's what she deserves, help her!
2006-11-05 12:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I want to shake the hell out of her just from what you have said!!! Here is what I would do: 1) Let her do what she wants, yeah that might sound stupid and irresponsible but she'll learn from her mistakes because trust me she WILL get a name for herself in school such as cheap, easy, tart etc but in the long run this is good, it might open her eyes to the fact people are using her. 2) Don't take her phone or computer off her, this will only make her rebel even more so trust me that's not good it will only make her worse!! 3) Talk to her friends to find out why she is being like this. She may blame it teen hormones but that excuse is pathetic and not needed. At least if you talk to her friends they are more likely to tell you. Say something like "We are worried she will make the wrong choices" or "Do you really want your friend to meet with older men and have her endanger her safety?" If they care they will tell you all that they know. 4) As for the STI you should consider slapping james...I would! Seriously, you say he is your friend? How can he be if he thinks it is right to go off with your YOUNGER sister? You really need to make it clear to him that what he is doing is wrong on all levels. I hope you manage to make her see sense! You could also, threaten her by saying making something up like "The family is falling apart because of you" or "Mom is on anti-depresents becuase of your stupidity". This sounds harsh but use it as a last resort if she still won't listen becuase this will make her think a lot if she realises she is making fanily members ill. Good luck with it all. I really hope she snaps out of it because it's really not fair on you or your mom. Take care x
2016-05-22 02:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what!!! don't let your 16 year old daughter do that..break it up!!you're the adult and she's still learning...talk to his parents..if you don't get anywhere...like the other person said call the police...thats wrong for a guy to do that no matter how old he is...and let your daughter know this is WRONG!! and she can't be with him!!!
2006-11-05 19:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by gabby' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she is staying in the relationship. Build her self-esteem, Give her all the support she needs help her come to the conclusion that she needs to get out of the relationship, she needs to feel that she is in control.
2006-11-05 12:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Karen I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you didnt beat the holy **** out of him? Did you call the Police? If she were my daughter she wouldnt have to worry about seeing him again!!!!!
2006-11-05 12:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get him on his own and scare the absolute **** out of him, explain that the next time he lays a finger on your daughter you will break his fingers one by one.
2006-11-05 13:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Meg24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that she won't be seeing that guy anymore and make sure she doesn't.
Talk to her and let her know that she deserves better.
2006-11-05 15:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by catmoosebear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shell find out soon that she should leave him.if she isn't away from him in 1 week,then call the police.
2006-11-05 12:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋