Okay here goes me and my bestfriend have been friends for 3 years... She rarely has money and still begs me to buy her things and never pays back... She can NEVER get rides to my house or get picked up therefore my mom has to drive her back and forth ALL THE TIME... I drive her to school in the morning (she lives right near me) and she will be like can I borrow some earrings thanks! Or she will just start using my expensive perfume like I don't care. I want her to stop now what do I do? Besides the hate I have towards her we have so much fun together we both have the same type of humor which no one else gets and shes always there for me.
2006-11-05 12:16:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
.........say you've run out of cash, and hide the stuff she like's.....
2006-11-05 12:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Can't hate her..... you just try not to borrow her your money and just keep your expensive perfume away from her ....later she will found out that she is wrong and she maybe will change her bad habit... just forgive your best friend..... you are very lucky to have a best friend...
2006-11-05 20:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by KerReN HoN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can simply talk to her and find out why she is doing all that.
and you could always nicely ask for your money back
and tell her that your mom can't drive her to school one morning and she'll have to find her own ride. or you could have her mom take you guys one morning and your mom the next or something like that, so she's not always depending on you mom.
2006-11-05 20:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are done with the friendship . tell her exactly why. and ignore her . think about how she has used you and it will be easy for you to ignore her for those reasons.. She never really wanted a true friendship so treat her as some one you don't know..
2006-11-05 20:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't let her borrow money and things from you...be her friend, but keep your stuff to yourself! or tell her why you don't want to loan her stuff, but tell her you still wana be friends,
2006-11-05 20:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by ..::xoxo::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a very good friend don't hate her its hard to find a friend.when it comes to money you should be honest to her that you need the money back I know she will understand.
2006-11-05 21:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by chiroselle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her not to use ur stuff then tell her you dont have the money
2006-11-05 20:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by im lost come and find me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should kindly ask her to pay you back for all of the monney.
2006-11-05 20:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋