If you were told the person you want to spend your life with is going to die in 3 months, no more birthdays, no anniversaries, no christmas', no holiday's, what would you give that person to tell them how much they mean to you?
If you wrote them a poem, what would you do with it besides frame it?
2006-11-05 11:51:28 · 14 answers · asked by ' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They have already realized that they have to live every moment to it's fullest and spend our time telling and writing each other how they feel, the things that they want each other to know, etc.... They spend every moment as if it is their last, and every moment making new memories. This will need to be a material gift
2006-11-05 12:06:14 · update #1
something you could return in 90 days for a full refund.
You people need to get a sense of humor.
2006-11-05 11:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
I would offer to get them whatever they wanted. However, I would tell them that I know there is no gift or anything of materialistic value that could ever hold the value of what they meant to me. Perhaps I would give them a letter expressing how I felt and how much they meant to everyone. That the footsteps they made in everyones life will be followed by everyone with love and respect. They will never be forgotten and that they will be remember until the day you die. Then, when that day does happen, you will be reunited for eternity.
2006-11-05 19:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by brucenjacobs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wrote my father a letter for his birthday once telling him all the things I felt and wanted him to know. After he passed away last year, I was so glad that I did. It was comforting to know that he knew exactly how much I loved him. If I knew someone I loved was dying, I would write them a letter or poem and read it to them. Then spend as much time with them as possible. I also like the idea of enclosing it in the casket after they pass.
2006-11-05 19:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd write down all of my favorite things about the person, I'd write down all of the things you did together that - good and bad - are really memorable. I'd write poetry, I'd write whatever was on my heart about this person and write it in a journal for them to read and be buried with. When someone dies, you will hear countless people say countless times, "I wish I had told them..." or "I hope they knew that..." or "I wonder if they remember when..." Write everything down in a journal as a way to tell them how much they mean to you. Blessings
2006-11-05 19:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should read it to them over and over, give them memories and make them realise with picture from the past just how much of a wonderful life they have had. it will help you aswell as when there gone you will have those emories to look back on as well. and this will help you move one to a new life with someone else.
just make sure they know how loved they are and tht there happy when they go. make them believe there going to a better palce adn show them that you love them.
forget any ill pasts and just be there when they go.
your most likly everything that they want.
hope everything goes well for you.
2006-11-05 19:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by origamix60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to give them anything. You need to spend time with them. Tell them everyday how you feel. Make sure they understand that and believe it. Only do what is fun. Live everyday to the fullest. Cherish the time you have left with them.
2006-11-05 19:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Equichick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your love, time & attention. Material things will mean little. The one I have spent my life with is dying. An awful place to be. Luck is we have had a good life together. All that matters. What is carrying us through.
2006-11-05 19:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The BEST gift is : JESUS ! It is JESUS , THE WAY ,THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE ...Day soon he will return and take your beloved to LIFE EVERLASTING ...I Thessalonians 3 : 14 ...FOR IF WE BELIEVE THAT JESUS DIED AND ROSE AGAIN , EVEN SO THEM ALSO WHICH SLEEP ( DIE ) IN JESUS WILL GOD BRING WITH HIM...My friend , like it or not , either one of these TWO RESSURECTIONS will your beloved partake in : FIRST TO LIFE ( those died in JESUS ...Revelation 20 : 6 : BLESSED AND HOLY IS HE THAT HATH PART IN THE FIRST RESSURECTION : ON SUCH THE SECOND DEATH ( HELL'S FIRE ) HAS NO POWER...) ; or SECOND RESSURECTION TO ETERNAL DEATH....Revelation 20 : 12 - 15 AND I SAW THE DEAD , SMALL AND GREAT STAND BEFORE GOD ; AND THE BOOKS WERE OPENED : WHICH IS THE BOOK OF LIFE : AND THE DEAD WERE JUDGED OUT OF THOSE THINGS WHICH WERE WRITTEN IN THE BOOKS , ACCORDING TO THEIR WORKS...AND THE SEA GAVE UP THE DEAD WHICH WERE IN IT , AND DEATH AND HELL DELIEVERED UP THE DEAD WHICH WERE IN THEM : AND THEY WERE JUDGED EVERYMAN ACCORDING TO HIS WORKS... AND DEATH AND HELL WERE CAST INTO THE LAKE OF FIRE. THIS IS THE SECOND DEATH ...AND WHOSOEVER WAS NOT FOUND IN THE BOOK OF LIFE WAS CAST INTO THE LAKE OF FIRE....DEATH HAS LOST ITS STING !!! My friend , there is no other choice if you want to meet you friend another time , where in Revelation 21 : 4 , it says AND GOD SHALL WIPE AWAY ALL TEARS FROM THEIR EYES ; AND THERE SHALL BE NO MORE DEATH , NEITHER SORROW , NOR CRYING , NEITHER SHALL THERE BE ANYMORE PAIN : FOR THE FORMER THINGS ARE PASSED AWAY...Finally , we are advised in I Thessalonians 3 : 13...BUT I WOULD NOT HAVE YOU TO BE IGNORANT BRETHREN , CONCERNING THEM WHICH ARE ASLEEP ( DEAD ) , THAT YE SORROW NOT EVEN AS OTHERS WHICH HAVE NO HOPE....My friend ,feel free to contact at any time , email : srjione@yahoo.com .....God Bless you and your friend
2006-11-05 20:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by srjione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that really sounds like a sad situation. but if you want to tell them something just tell them if you want to write a poem you could have it wrote up in a paper or something but that really is sad but just mainly be there with them and for them , and im sure they knowl you love them , hope everything comes out alright
2006-11-05 20:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by martha d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give what I gave my Mom before she died. I gave her my TIME. I spent every minute with her doing things, talking and making memories for me.
2006-11-05 19:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give it to them,be there for them......Live your dreams in that time even if its only talking about it...GOOD LUCK
2006-11-05 19:55:42 · answer #11 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋