It is not everday, but usually sometime each week I get all depressed and feel awful, cant eat, cry, etc Trying to do things and not think about it, but I cant overcome it completely. I dont know how or where to meet new people either. Help !
2006-11-05 11:37:02 · 11 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are still in a lot of pain by the sound of it! There's nothing wrong with you at all! What you are going through is normal...well i hope so, coz its been 6 months since me and my bf split, and i still feel sad, lonely and have that "where did I go wrong" feeling almost everyday. The only thing that will heal you is time, and self-forgiveness. Go easy on yourself, and try and find and focus on things in your life that nurture and fufill you. Keep telling yourself that you are a beautiful person, with many wonderful qualities, and you will attract into your life many beautiful and wonderful things. "With every sunset, with every goodbye, comes the dawn...." Hang in there!
2006-11-05 12:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship that has ended is a type of loss for one or both parties. Loss, whether it be the death of a loved one, death of a pet, stolen car, or in your case the separation from a once intimate partner, often results in depression. Simply stated: Loss=Depression. It's a form of grief in which time is the best remedy.
If that "empty sick feeling inside" gets to the point where you don't seem to enjoy life like you once did, experience loss of appetite or overeating, or have thoughts of suicide, then you should seek professional help without any hesitation. Your family physician should be able to refer you to a licensed mental health professional.
Best of Luck!
Cheers!
2006-11-05 15:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff N. Florida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the song says breaking up is hard to do..........If you were for a long time together of course it is going to hurt, Especially if something like a song or a place that you have been with that someone happens along. Just try to take each day as it comes and tell yourself better times are coming. Time heals all wounds. Good Luck
2006-11-05 11:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, for one, sense empty from time to time. there are distinctive explanation why i think what i think. a million. i'm single and % as much as attach with somebody yet no longer looking the marvelous guy or woman. So at nighttime as quickly as I sleep, I many times sense vacancy. 2. i've got not got many pals interior the city the place I stay at present. So particularly many times i detect myself on my own. assembly with well suited human beings can help however. 3. from time to time as quickly as I get disillusioned in somebody or something(i.e. occupation), I many times have this sense - questioning approximately the place my existence replaced into and the place it somewhat is headed. 4. as quickly as I see that everyone my pals have got here across an more desirable 0.5 and that i'm nonetheless searching for the only - that too with a broken coronary heart. And on many extra activities, i think this way. yet while there is something I easily have found out in existence, do no longer lose desire. issues gets extra suitable.
2016-10-21 08:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you need to find someone else, sweetie, and I'd recomment Yahoo Personals, or Match.com, or a ton of other sites. Jeez, it's over. Now find someone even better... Read some of my other answers on how to do that. You'll be surprise at the great people out there.... good luck, hon. Don't shed another tear!!!!!!!
2006-11-05 12:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crying because you still care for him : boyfriend / husband...if that was your husband and he was wrong ( adultery ) , forgive him and carry on with life..there are millions of men in this small world...Find the right one this time..from the million ? Hard , isn't it ? Like finding a needle in a haysack ! So ? PRAY that God LEADS you to the right one this time around ...if that was a boyfriend , then come out of you childiness..pain it was for a breakup but on the bright side of things : better be done than stick on and regret greatly later on...Luke 1 : 37 . .FOR WITH GOD , NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE....GOD BLESS
2006-11-05 11:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by srjione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an adjustment when you break up with someone. Some people take longer to cope with some things than others. Just keep your head up. You'll get through it. Nothing in this world is permanent.
2006-11-05 11:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by cyber_music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my wife left me 2 months ago and I still ahve thsoe feelings. I wish i could have her back. It's something that takes time. I guess. But ahng in there it can only get better. Put your faith in God. He will never leave you hanging.
2006-11-05 11:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by extremeradio2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to heal. Two months is still recent. it you feel very depressed, maybe you should get counseling. Its normal to feel sad. try to do things that take your mind off your ex. I know how you feel. You will survive, trust me.
Good luck.
2006-11-05 11:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 2 years to get ...actually im still not over my ex... and i feel the same way as you. I dated other people but that still didnt help. Go to clubs, or bars to get help you forget about him/ her and you might meet someone there.
2006-11-05 11:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋