Married People, What Do You Think About Your In-Laws?

Question

give me details about your in-laws. Do you get along with them? Do you love or detest them? Etc......

Answer 1

well my ex inlaws were EVIL! (my 1st marriage) they told my best friends sister we were getting married cause I was pregnant.. I wasnt. They were suppose to bring food for the reception.. we counted on them.. they didnt, they walked out of our reception WITH thier gifts.. and gave them to my brother in-law (thier other son) and his girlfriend. When our baby was born, 22 months later.. they flew to Ca to visit other family and go ski-ing in tahoe.. but wouldnt come to our house..... so we packed up everything and our 2week old baby and drove 2+ hours to see them. They never gave a gift w/o leaving the tag still on it. They dont talk to thier grandaughter but maybe once a year, but thats my fault (!?!?) most recently, they sent her a birthday card and didnt even sign it. do I detest them.... thats putting it mildly!

I dont know my husbands parents as they were both deceased before I met him.

Answer 2

Regarding my mother in law, I started out resenting her because she didn't pay attention to my kids as she did the other grandkids. She also bought the others gifts and never bought my children anything. Later on, I matured and gave all those feelings up and found her to be a kind, gentle and jolly person. She was always good to me and she had 12 children of her own. I think I was the first one to tell her goodbye after a visit and say, "Love you, Ma." That was the first time she responded back and said, "I love you too, hon." She and her children never talked like that openly even though they were all close. So I ended up having a mother in law that never meddled or anything like that and was good to me.

Now that she is finally in the ebb tide of her life and not well physically, the family black sheep has stirred up such a mess because she wants to inherit what little her mother has (none of the other kids really cared); but she told so many lies and manipulated her mom so well (she was living off her mom and had been for all her life) that now my mother in law won't have hardly any contact at all with the other grown children. They have tried to overlook it and visit with their mom, but she always brings it up in a cynical manner to them that they don't treat her baby well.

I think it is a very sad situation that she will meet her maker having these unforgiving, angry feelings toward the children she has bore.

Answer 3

I like my in-laws. I just have problems remembering that they are not normal. To give an example: My mother-in-law was convinced that moving to a small town would brainwash my husband because she watched too many shows on TV where someone moves to a small town and turns into some kind of zombie.

My husband responded to this by calling and repeating, "The town is good to me. I like the town." over and over again. She started asking him who his relatives were and if they were still alive. LMAO

I should also mention my sister-in-law who has been dying of various ailments for the past five years (did you know that human lungs have TWO chambers? Every other human on the planet doesn't have this, but she does, according to her) , is a pathological liar and was banned from our wedding by my husband. Her I don't like.

Answer 4

I am definite that via consular agreements, the U.S. accepts Mexican marriages as legitimate marriages. That method the person continues to be married legally in Mexico and the U.S. His making an attempt to marry yet another character could be viewed bigamy. Bigamy is illegal within the U.S. So his marrying yet another character, even as he's nonetheless married in Mexico, is illegal. A Christian pastor could no longer marry this guy to yet another ladies if the pastor knew approximately it. Your boyfriend is a married guy, although he could also be performing unmarried. Wake up, woman!!!! The Christian church is charged via the apostles to hold all civil ordinances. Do no longer attempt to holiday the legislation right here in America.

Answer 5

My mother-in-law is a little too much "Betty Crocker and isn't my son just the greatest in the world" for my liking. But luckily, she lives 1000 miles away and always sends the grand kids holiday money.


however, unfortunately my hubby does not had it is easy....we live in the same town as most of my family!

Answer 6

I get along great with them, as well as I do with my relatives. My mother-in-law can be over motherly, but I see the same thing in my wife (no thank you, I can cut up my own meat). I get along fine with my sisters-in-law and my brothers-in-law treat my like a brother. I even worked for one of them when he needed a laborer (construction) and we still get along great. My father-in-law is no longer with us, but he was like a second dad to me.

Answer 7

Mine are both deceased and that is a blessing! I knew the mother in law for 16 years and she was ok, just really critical and no help with our kids (babysitting).

Answer 8

I get along with them and I love them very much...

Answer 9

Mine are very nice. They help when needed and mind their own when they should. A very rare trait in in-laws. I like them.

Answer 10

I have the best in laws. They have never come to visit us, they only call on birthdays and holidays and they never get into our business.