Ignoring him has not worked, and he has posted some hurtful things on the internet. How can I get him to LEAVE ME ALONE? He now lives in the same town I live in with his wife and 2 children!
2006-11-05 11:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by nybirdlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(he and his wife in children now live in my town)
2006-11-05 11:22:06 · update #1
I wouldn't suggest moving. My best friend moved about seven states away, and her ex ended up following her there.
If he has posted anything that can be considered defamatory, get an attorney to at least write him a cease and desist letter. He should know that you mean business. Ignoring people like that usually does not work. They take it as a sign of weakness. Does his wife know anything about what he's been doing? If she didn't and somehow found out, he'd probably have hell to pay with her too. Maybe you should contact her. Also, get a no contact order. Alone, these things might not be powerful, but combining them might get him to back off.
2006-11-05 11:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy's a punk. Probably a wuss too, if he is harassing a woman.
1. Call his wife, tell her what he is doing. Perhaps she is not aware of his obsession with you , even after all this time. Ask her if she'd be willing to join you for a meeting with him, as a surprise. Then talk about it. That should embarass him and wake him up.
2. If she refuses, call some huge guy you know to meet up with him as he leaves work someday. The huge guy should give him a shove and tell him to leave you alone or he will make it really rough for him and his family, as well.
3. Or, get a permit to buy and carry a gun. A nice little Dillinger will do. Ask him to meet with you; when he shows up, pull the (unloaded) gun on him and tell him the next time he pulls that sh)t you'll turn him from a rooster into a capon.
Good luck.
2006-11-05 11:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send everything to his new wife. Get a restraining order or move to another coast or at least a town that is several hours away.
2006-11-05 11:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him for harassment and tell him if he doesn't stop your going to come over to his house and tell his wife right in front of him to ask him to leave you alone, That your tired of him calling constantly. Print out all those internet messages give them to the law and a set for her.
2006-11-05 11:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he clearly has some unresolved issues, even after all this time! there isn't much you can do to stop him, you have no control over that. you can only control the way you deal with it, and continuing to ignore will eventually work. as long as he is getting the results he wants, he will continue what he is doing. ask him, straight up if there is something he wants to get off his chest and have it out with you once and for all.
2006-11-05 11:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a jerk!! I would try getting even. post some things about him, see how he likes it! Of course, that will result in retaliation and WON`T get him to leave you alone. sounds like he is just one of those jerks who like to rub things in your face and be a constant annoyance. I guess the only thing you can do is either move away, fight fire with fire, or wait for him to do something the police will handle for you. sorry, this advice kinda sucks, but idk what to say about something like this. It`s crazy and so is he!
2006-11-05 11:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start writing down every thing he dose /the date /the time. Then keep any thing Else that can link him to you harassing voice mail/ or letters. Then find a good layer and make him leave you alone. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-05 11:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-05 11:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Call the cops but get some evidence of what he's been doing and get an order of protection. Because it doesn't sound like he's wrapped to tight.
2006-11-05 11:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by dreamsjv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋