if people are going to get married and after awile they will split up because someone is cheating one the other person it is so stupied so i want to know?
2006-11-05 11:10:26 · 25 answers · asked by skye p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well after being married twice I have come to the conclusion that marriage doesn't work for me.
I actually don't believe in it anymore.
I am really surprised too so many people think its the answer because it just isn't
2006-11-05 11:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what I used to think when I was a kid, so I had no intention to marry. Then I realized in life that if my partner really wants to get married, then why not?
Believe it or not there are millions of people who have got married and have never had an affair.
However, yeah, if you're getting married and planning on cheating on your spouse, I don't get it either. I know it happens. Some people need the security blanket of a marriage so they can turn their partner into their mommy or daddy, then go around having sex with other people like they're a teenager living at home.
2006-11-05 11:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one marries with intentions of splitting up!!! Although, they may not work out together in the end true love is eternity and most people never regret true love!!! Some times the relationships were just to premature for marriage in the first place and were rushed so in the end they realize they may have loved but were never truly in love and would have been better off as friends.
2006-11-05 11:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by queenV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do not have to get Married.
Despite a 50 percent divorce rate, our society looks favorably on marriage.
There are options to having a relationship, other than Marriage.
The people can decide to Live together and see if they are truly compatible. This way, they can decide to have children when they are married.
I believe is it better if children are born to Married parents...fewer problems for the children.
There are no guarantees in life, for sure. Marriage takes a great deal of effort by both partners. We live in a seductive, fast paced society with many distractions. Both for the Female and the Male partner.
I hope that my answer can assist you.
2006-11-05 11:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because marriage is a beautiful thing. There is nothing I hold more dear or sacred than my marriage. The love I felt for my wife on the day I married her is puppy love compared to how I feel all of these years later. And the truly beautiful thing is that I know she feels the same way about me.
The reason people break up is because we have created a society that forsaken concepts like sacrifice and commitment and replaced them with the idea that we are ENTITLED to have EVERYTHING we desire. That FEELINGS are more important than character. "Follow your heart" has replaced "do the right thing" as advice. Emotion has replaced reason as a guiding principle.
And that makes no sense what-so-ever.
2006-11-05 11:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking my last 2 exes got married to me so that when they got tired of me they could go file for a divorce get a better car then they had when they came in as well as a hunk of my retirement money.and of course Alimony why would they ever want to work???? You want to talk about equal rights then lets get some fair laws for divorce so the women can not take the guy to the cleaners each time!!!!
2006-11-05 11:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by Redmac1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people get married for the man/woman's money.Or they are young and think they are in love but are truly not commited.Some even get married to show of on their friends and end up loving the guy but being heartbroken.It could be any of these reasons or maybe another?
2006-11-05 11:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There a now more unmarried couples living together than married couples in the USA. So, youre far from the only one thinking the same thing.
2006-11-05 11:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If talking about celebrities... its becuase they can... thier rich. The rest of us just get so used to each other that we become bored, and many people dont have the tools or knowledge or desire to change it before it gets to the point when one party or the other is no longer open to putting forth in effort.
2006-11-05 11:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by chas p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its supposed to give your kids a sense of security and provide legal rights for everyone (in the case of health insurance, a will, money, etc.). In the church, the two are joined as one which is to say their own needs are not supposed to come first anymore....
but you know how that story ends ....
2006-11-05 11:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋