Painless Suicide?

Question

I was reading the other questions & all were closed to responses. I am unfortunately one of the people that feel suicide is the answer anytime something goes wrong in life. (It's the first thing that pops into my head.) I have technically only attempted once by taking pills, but I'm still here! I was told if I would have drank a bunch of alcohol it would have worked. And I once passed out in my garage with my car running after a night of drinking & later thought that might work if I was wanting to attempt again, but it sounds like maybe that won't work. I don't have a garage anymore anyhow. Anyway, I am on another 'suicide's the only answer' kick and seeing if there are other people that know the pain of just not wanting to live anymore. I know, God loves me, everyone loves me, etc. I'd kinda like to hear from people who can relate on the level I'm on. Thanks.

Answer 1

Well you have attempted it atleast once and you are still here! Obviously the world needs you and you can't give up on life before you filfull that purpose. There is no painless suicide, even if it doesn't hurt you will cause pain to everyone around you. Life is worth it although sometimes you gotta put up with quite a treacherous thunderstorm before you get the rainbow. Good luck

Answer 2

I hope this will help you some way , I can see by the other answers that their feelings towards suicide are are what they are .
First let me tell you about suicide ! It is written in the bible of being a sin ... and that you will burn in hell and all kinds of fears ... well the truth is that it was written for the sole purpose of maintaining a supply of live people that will continue contributing moneys to the church , a form of taxation by fear. You see when the bible was written in the 4th century decay was prevalent .. the dark
ages the morality , poverty , epidemics etc... was prevalent , the monarchies and empires of the time imposed heavy taxes on it's people , and the same time the church was beginning to gain strength in the population , they had to some how convince people to stay put , they created this book of rules the bible enficising it was from God , the people of those days what would they know ? and folowed it with fear . And now days the fear
continues , the government for the same reason will say it is a crime and the church will tell you is a mortal sin ... the truth is that committing suicide is only another one of the choices of death .. that come in a variety of forms ... wars, crime , traffic accidents , drowning by accident , falling from a mountain , sky diving , attack from a deranged person , a stray bullet , cancer , heart atack and millions of other forms , suicide is just one more , so remove the fear ... there is no hell , just another life to come to again and again and again until you have learned what you must .
We are on this earth to learn all we can , if your destiny is to live a long life , you will ,no Mather haw many times you try to kill your self, you will survive , if you are destine to start again your life will be snufed , and you will came back as a new baby to start all over again... That said suicide has its lousy side , you will inflict a terrible sorrow to the people that loves you , that will last their entire life , anger , blame and very deep pain .. if you love any body , your parents , brothers or sisters , lovers , husband/wife , and your children if you have any , and friends , and of course all the people you will not be able to help because you are not here any more, your life and every bodies life have a certain purpose , we are all interconnected like a fishing, net if one knot is broken it can start a long damage , my suggestion is don't do it , but if you succeed , you will be all right , but not the ones that stay behind , think of them ....
Now let me tell you , and highly recommend you to talk to your doctor for the sole purpose of checking imbalance and lack of certain chemicals in the brain ,for females hormonal imbalance and depression will entice the feelings of suicide , by seeing a doctor he can diagnose and prescribe medicine that will actually
revert those filings , folow it up...

Answer 3

I think all methods are painful. I've been trying to research methods because I feel like you do right now. There are a lot of websites out there that provide methods and the probability of them working. It seems that really the only ways to go are to combine sleeping pills with alcohol and tie a plastic bag over your head once you start getting drowsy or to buy a gun and shoot yourself in the head. Neither of these sound very pleasant and the kinds of sleeping pills that you would need require a prescription to get. There aren't a lot of Canadian or Mexican websites that even bother selling them online. I

t seems that the effort in obtaining an effective method is almost as bothersome as living. If you want someone to complain about life to that understands what you feel right now and won't judge you, feel free to e-mail me. All I can say right now is that if it doesn't work, it will make living that much more unbearable.

Answer 4

I think I understand you.

You want a painless way out because life hurts so much right now. Who am I to tell you that you're wrong, that life isn't so bad, that you're making a big deal out of nothing.

But think of this - has life always been this way? Has every moment of your life been spent in pain? Or can you remember better times? Times when you could smile. Times when you laughed. Times when you had something to look forward to when you got up in the morning?

Life hasn't always been as bad as it seems right now, has it?

Just as you say you've felt this bad before, you've also felt better. The good and bad times come and go. But if you end it now, the good is gone forever, and all you are left with is a sad end. That would be such a shame.

It takes courage to go on when everything seems so bad. I know this, and you know it, too. But we've both found the courage to go on. You're stronger than you know.

One more thing. Just like so many others have said, you don't need to figure this out on your own. There are people out there who want to help you.

I wish you a long and happier life.

Answer 5

1-800-suicide I know what you are coming from and what you are going though. That was me for 8 years. But the thing is depression and suicidal thoughts aren't you. You could be so much happier and confident in yourself if you would just get the help you deserve and you need. Death is a solution. But not the solution you should be picking. Again- Life is so worth living if you would just give it a chance. Hope and love are real. You deserve to know what hope feels like- what its like to love someone and have them love you in return. The fact that you are still alive means that you are not meant to die. You are too young. You have a purpose in being alive. Use that purpose to help people or change the world for the better. Teach someone to read. Build someone a house with Habitat for Humanity. Life is given to us and we need to use it wisely. We have time to be dead once we have finished everything we need to experience first. Old age really should be the way everyone should go. Please don't kill yourself. The world wouldn't be the same with one less person in it. The people who care about you would be devastated. Think about what you would being putting your parents through- your siblings- and your extended family. Do you really want to do that to them? They deserve to get to know you.

Answer 6

This is what is going to happen, you will most likely end up tied to a bed on a respirator and not be able to move. You will be locked up in a psychiatric unit. If you are successful you will suffer. Once you act on your decision you can never ever make another decision. No matter what happens to you or where you go all decisions are gone.
The survivors that live will go through a living hell. Generations of your relatives will be affected by your death. There is a statistically higher chance you will have have another family member or friend attempt suicide. You will be responsible for incredible suffering of other that love you.
The good news is that you can be helped. There are ALWAYS alternatives. I have been a mental health counselor for 10 years and have never run into a situation where suicide is the answer. Please call and get help. Life can get better and it will, please believe that. I am not deceiving you. There are people that care about you out there. I care about you. Please get help. This is where you start. Call this number now PLEASE 1.800.SUICIDE (784-2433) its confidential and they will help you NOW.

Answer 7

I don't relate to the level you're on anymore. I once did. I'm not here to simply tell you that god loves you or to get help. But, I do want you to know suicide is not the answer. We all react to things in a different way, and I suppose you automatically want to die. Everyone goes through a time in their life they don't want to live anymore, it's natural and everyone collides with reality at some point. You're not alone. Be strong, think of how many things you have to look forward to in life, why cut it short just because things aren't going the way you planned?
Much Love.

Answer 8

When things get so bad that death seems like the only answer, that's the clearest sign that you are not well and need help. I say this because I was there once (more than once). I guarantee you that if you keep plugging along one day you will look back and be so relieved you didn't kill yourself because you would have missed out on so many great things. Things seem bad now, but they will get better - trust me. Please seek out a therapist - it really can help you get through this bad time.

Answer 9

The basis for a desire to die is in believing that relief will instantly come from whatever mental or physical problem has come about. The fact is that there is no reward or peace felt by thought by experiencing the death process. If it were so, every religion would advocate death by any means, but this is not so. Understand what it is to be a part of the infinite individuality of the Creator, and the thoughts of suicide will never haunt you again. Listen to your heart and not your brain, and find good people to talk to, but do not sit on these dark thoughts by yourself. You are important, and don't believe otherwise.

Answer 10

All the answers so far have been telling you that for the sake of other- or burning in hell- you shouldn't suicide.
Sometimes the pain is so deep and sick that the concern for loved ones no longer matters.

There are groups on line of people who understand how you feel. They are pro-CHOICE suicide.They do not want people to suicide nor not to.It is good to talk to other who feel like you do.

It seems like you are quite impulsive and that is never good - as far as suicide is concerned.You can end up a veggie and that would be even worse for you.
I wish you Peace