i'm kind of fat but girls think i'm cute i want to ask her out but if she says no things would get wierd because she is in all my classes
2006-11-05 11:07:18 · 8 answers · asked by sonneillon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah but, girls are attracted to guys who are confident. If you show that you are confident and have enough courage to ask her out im sure that would incrase the odds of her saying yes. But if she does say no, whats the worst that can happen besides it being wierd? If she says no, dont make it wierd, still say hi, still talk to her in classes and everything, show her that if she DOES say no, that your CONFIDENT enough that it didnt phase you! I'm sure you guys will still remain friends even if she does say no, but if you dont go ask her, you'll have to live the rest of your life wondering what she really would have said. Get the courage and confidence and go ask, everything will work out! Good luck!
2006-11-05 11:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make comments about her body until y'all are really going out. If she's not dating you don't make comments about her body. She could either get creeped out and you'll lose your chance with her or she could take it completely different from how you meant it.
Don't pressure her to date you. Respect girls, that's the thing all of the guys of this generation need to know. If you respect a girl and treat her well, she'll like you.
Be friends with her for awhile and then in a year or two start seeing if she will date you. Never pressure a girl though, it's wrong and just shows you're not mature enough to be patient.
2006-11-05 19:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if you never ask her, you would feel really bad if she went out with someone else. I know that if you just wrote her a note and said please tell me if you like me? The girl might take it as you asking about being friends, but when she ask you that question all you have to say is would you consider going out with me and my friends at lunch time to mini mart or something else to grab a bite to eat? Then she might say yes and you could get one of you friends to ask her while your getting your food if she likes you, but make sure that this girl is okay with your friend first because the girl wont tell someone she hates if she like you are not. So good luck! Try it and dont be afaid to ask. Or if you have spanish with her try asking her out in spanish. Good luck! Dont wait do it as soon as you can.
2006-11-05 22:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the way you ask her. You could ask her "do you need someone to go out with this weekend? Because if you do, I could take you." Then see how she reacts. If she says she's all set, it's not as bad as if she said she doesn't need YOU.
2006-11-05 19:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's this one chubby guy in my class and it's so obvious he likes my friend but my friend only likes him as a friend she thinks he's sweet but that's all. but anyway u should ask her out
2006-11-05 19:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by LaBeLlAvItA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start flirting and if u see any signs that shes intereted make a move.
2006-11-05 19:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we 're not all bi.
ask her for some shopping.
try on some cloths, together in a booth.
make nice comments about her body.
take it slow.
good luck,
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2006-11-05 19:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like more than a friend tell her how you fell you never know she may fell the same way
2006-11-05 19:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Shanice M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋