Why do people make relatonships so difficult?

Question

Mine is pretty easy. My husband is severely crippled, but his heart is solid gold. All you have to do (it seems to me) is be 100% honest and 100% trusting and expect no less. I love my sweetie more than sugar water and I know he would die for me without question. I would try to talk him out of it, but he would do it anyway. Talk Talk Talk and mean what you say. Deception is the relationship killer.....Thoughts?

Answer 1

your relationship sounds like true love. some people never find that. yes they get married and live together but thats nothing if like you said, your not honest and trusting. it does seem simple. but somethings are worth fighting for.

Answer 2

You claim to be such an intelligent Democrat... but you spend your time on gibberish relationship crap... if people aren't smart enough to figure out how to treat a relationship, then they shouldn't claim to deserve one...

I kinda feel the same way about your calling yourself a democrat and pouring salt all over my question while I'm trying to help my fellow americans... just to cater to your ego.
I have my style that works and you have yours... obviously.

It's you that's not helping and you owe me an apology.
See you at the polls... or does that make dems look bad also?

Answer 3

relationships get difficult when there is no communication, when people don't confront their spouses in a good way when argueing. no one fights fair anymore, we attack our mates, make demands, just because we have no relationship skills. we think we will get our way with the silent treatment, but actually we are just killing our relationships.

Answer 4

Yeah kids get married with out knowing who their partner is though. They confuse, attraction with love

Answer 5

not everyone is as lucky to be married to their true love as you are. Cherish it.

Answer 6

Hell knows