2006-11-05 10:22:05 · 8 answers · asked by simply 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Do you have moral or religious reservations about premarital sex? If you think it's wrong or dirty or sinful, that can cause a big problem. If this is it, you need to either get counseling or get married.
2006-11-07 03:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short of finding as new gf, you could possibly try some therapy or switch from bedroom sex with yoru current gf to all sorts fo wild and kinky places; maybe sex in one or more ruisky situations will get you inspoired to reach great heights with her.
By way of explanation it could be one of:
a) she just doesn't do it for you
b) you are trying too hard; nothing kills a good erection faster than stress
c)you are suffering stage fright or performance anxiety which definitely can keep things from popping up.
d) your foreplay isn't really sufficient (duration adn/or intensity) to get you all worked up.
e) there might be some physical problem (but if you get erect nicely at other times, I'd rule that one out).
f) you are not only not turned on by here but maybe girls aren't
your thing.
and probably more. Personally I'd suspect one or a combination of b c and d and set to work on those before anything else though.
2006-11-06 16:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for some men. One time after being divorced for a couple of years, I ended up with a single woman whom I did not find attractive. I could not reach my erection and at that time I thought that there was something wrong with me. A few months later, I dated an attractive woman with a nice personality, whom I found very sexy. Ohhh my God! I honestly had erection for more than 6 hours continuously. After that, I got tired and my erection was gone.
2006-11-05 18:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you continue to admit you have a psychological block you will always have it. Change the way you think and all will be well and your girlfriend will love it!!!!! Think what you want and you can have it. Think about having the hottest sex you've ever had and it will happen sooner than you think.
2006-11-05 18:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info is provided with your question. If you had the block with all previous women, then it's an issue that you need to address. If it's only with this girlfriend, it may be that you aren't attracted to her sexually.
2006-11-05 18:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend and yourself should inquire about the services of a sex therapist. They are professionally trained. Please check out references and reputation thoroughly before making a first appointment if you decide to try this.
2006-11-05 18:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Animaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change girlfriends.
2006-11-05 18:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM THE OPPOSITE it never goes down but it does have it's uses the budgerigar perches on it.
2006-11-06 14:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by barrie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋