Well I get on here because she tells me to and I find out that she's starting to look at boys now! We're lesbian and thats not cool.She says so more hurtful things like our relationship is getting old. I love her but I'm not going to kiss nobody's *** to make them stay.We've been together for three years and she's now starting with this mess. She started trying to make plans for us to be together beyond school and now this! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-11-05 10:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Baby i love you so much, more than anything in the world, and my heart is set to do anything for you, why you trippen ? I dont feel like we getting old i feel like we need to take it to another level because we been on the same **** since we meet. I love you keosha and you mean the world to me but when i ask you to take it up ,you always complain about how you dont have time, i feel like im your girl and you should make sacrafices. With the boys it was just a phase,(quick thing). I love your pussy,it's the best. I dont want anybody elses if im getting dick it's gone be from you dady promise. So drop the bullshit and tell me you love me,becasue you know we aint going no where ,I ain even cooked dinner in our new apartment yet. So lose the idea's ,im sorry i said all that, it was because i was (ya know) all day long yesterday !! So STOP IT!! now what you want me to do to make it up??? And **** the ***** who said leave me!!! Yo *** better know im the only mutha-****** fish in YO sea!!!! GOT IT
2006-11-05 10:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ya know that song by Bonnie Raitt...I can't make you love me if you don't? There's a reason that song was such a huge hit. I am very sorry that you are having your heart broken but the best thing you can do for you is acknowledge that you cannot make this girl, or anyone else for that matter, love you. Let her go and move on. Try to work on accepting the situation for the unfortunate reality that it is. It doesn't mean you are unloveable, you are. But you cannot change someone else....only thing you can do is brace yourself - because you are hurt, accept the reality of what she has told you - and then start to heal. Sending you positive energy.
2006-11-05 10:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by paperorplastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the answer she posted here. You don't HAVE a problem.Start doing more things together. Set aside time for each other. If the relationship is getting boring then start doing what you BOTH can to make it exciting again. And good luck to you both!
2006-11-05 11:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend doesn't sound like much of a friend at all...That is the most important thing in a relationship...and she's keeping you in the dark about things.....Get rid of her
2006-11-05 10:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you both grow up....She post questions on here and talks about, then tells you to get on here....You two need to sit down and talk and stop trying to hurt each other...You both need to grow up and stop playing games...
2006-11-05 10:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta have a serious talk w/ her and both try figure out what's happening w/ your relationship...
just try to talk and clean up the mess and you both will get an answer
2006-11-05 10:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by babinxd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone "stay" if they don't want to. You can (and *should*) find someone who loves you as you love them ... that will be much more rewarding than crying over someone who doesn't return your passion.
2006-11-05 10:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,,,, clearly you need to leave her!
There are plenty more fish in the sea sister.
2006-11-05 10:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TAKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND OUT TO DINNER...LOOK DIRECTLY INTO HER EYES OVER A GLASS OF WHITE ZINFANDEL...SOFT MOOD MUSIC...EXPLAIN TO HER THAT YOU BELIEVE IN GOD...AND GOD BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER FOR A PURPOSE...TELL HER THAT EMOTIONAL PAIN AND ABUSE IS VERY DESTRUCTIVE...AND ASK HER TO PLEASE SHARE WITH YOU WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO HURT HER...THAT MIGHT HAVE PROVOKED THIS EVENT...HOLD HANDS TOGETHER...DON'T KISS..AND PRAY TOGETHER TO THE GOD OF YOUR CHOICE FOR HEALING
2006-11-05 10:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb..
Don't let someone who is not worth your time ,waste your time!
2006-11-05 11:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by free_style_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋