I've realized for a long time that she likes to have control over all her relationships, even to the point that she prefers that I don't like her boyfriend so that I won't hang out with both of them -- only her. She seems to like that her sister and brother's don't like him also, so that she can keep everyone separated when she spends time with them.
We spend tons of time talking about her relationship. I've been out of the dating world for over a year -- now that I'm back in it she's acting odd. She likes discussing the guys for a few days, but then stops asking or even saying much -- even when I directly ask for her opinion. Is this part of her controlling nature or something else?
2006-11-05 10:09:46 · 3 answers · asked by Teena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds extremely insecure and immature, IMHO.
2006-11-05 10:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by shojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lose with this kind of relationship, trust me I had one similar. All the conversations revolved around her and her problems. You don't registar on her radar. If she has to keep certain people away from other certain people it's because she's been lying to one or the other one. She's very insecure if she doesn't want to share her boyfriend & her time with you. Find someone who genuinely wants to be your friend, not just use you to manipulate.
2006-11-05 18:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by jacicat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes our lives need a good clean out. If your friend does not make you feel good about yourself, and you leave feeling worse than when you arrived, then you really need to cut the cord. If you really value her tell her how she makes you feel and give her another chance. Happens to all of us, we survive and weed out the bad...eventually you end up with a lot of good relationships.
2006-11-06 23:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋