my question was to men & women
if you asked your hubby or wife these 3 questions
1..do you love me
2..are you in love with me
3..do you find me attractive
& they answered 1 & 3 yes,and answered no to number 3 how would you feel & what would you do
2006-11-05 10:02:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
madonna theres no need to be rude
omg people im only asking a question,its only a *what if *,sort of question.
2006-11-05 10:13:33 · update #1
no to number 2,sorry
2006-11-05 10:19:37 · update #2
I completely understand - what if he's not IN love with you, well my hubby started with that one when we first met, now, well he still doesn't say it but he shows it. Can you not tell how he feels from his actions, ask him what does he mean, that he cares for u like a family member or what, don't put up with crap, you are worth more than that, tell him you need clarifiation and now, don't waste your life it's too precious,oh and good luck!
2006-11-05 12:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got hungry and ate your first question.
So if my husband said yes he loved me (1), and yes he found me attractive (3) then no, he did not find me attractive (according to you #3 again) I would have a hard time believing him, because he can't make up his mind on the same issue.
2006-11-05 18:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel hurt and talk to the hubby and if all else get help and try to get the relationship back on track, if not it's time for a divorce and go seperate ways..
2006-11-05 18:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read back yr question ? 1&3 yes and no to 3 ? if you mean no to 3 then id want know where id gone wrong... coz even thow yr married you never stop making that effort to look good... always be yr best married or not.. becoz as soon as thats gone theres potential for them to wonder elswhere
2006-11-05 18:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by cathrin j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Use the search engine above your question to find it. I guess YA hiccuped again. It happened the other day and I lost my question too.
2006-11-05 18:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask what has changed and what you can do to improve.
Then depending upon the answer i would consider where he was been fair/ truthful or where he is just been mean.
Then I'd either change the way i looked or i would leave him for been inconsiderate.
2006-11-05 18:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its still there. I would talk to them and try to figure out what was wrong. If there could be no satisfactory answer than I would probably consider divorce.
2006-11-05 18:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask him some other day when he's not so drunk. Or don't try to figure it out. He's pulling your chain.
2006-11-06 01:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept that 2 out of three ain't bad.
2006-11-05 18:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your question is right here:
If in doubt, go to your profile, click on your questions and go down the list till you find the one your looking for and click on it.
as to your question....sorry, I'm a confirmed bachelor
2006-11-05 18:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋