I am "friends" with his girlfriend. But she is sometimes jealous of my relationship with him. He is controlled by her.
2006-11-05 10:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by s_fhockey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
his best guy friends have been trying to break them up. I am trying to stay out of it because I have gotten into many fights with his gf about stuff like that. There are many rumors about her cheating on him with other guys and he believes her when she says its not true. Even when everyone else says it is. How do I get him out of this trans she has him in!?!?!
2006-11-05 13:14:35 · update #1
It's not up to you to reveal his girlfriend for who she is - she will eventually reveal herself. If you really are his 'friend', back off and let it be. If the two of you are meant to be together, let nature take it's course. Sometimes if you force things to happen it'll just end up blowing up in your face.
Just continue being his friend, and being yourself, he will notice eventually and hopefully something good will come of that.
2006-11-05 10:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off it sounds as though you yourself havent been honest with him either! Girl if you feel you are the better for him then speak up and let him know. Although might I suggest you think this through before you act. Theres alot involved. An already existing relationship, friendships, and dont forget that simple little crush of yours.
Ask your self this question and be honest with yourself. DOES HE REALLY LOVE THE ONE HES WITH NOW, EVEN THOUGH THAT ONE, you say lies to him. If you truely care about him and your own answer is yes, then maybe you should walk away. If that does not appease you then maybe you should just allow him them knowledge that you like him, and allow him to respond. Maybe this crush sees what you see and is just waiting for another rope to grab onto before dumping her. Alot of realationships end in this manner. Alot of people are so afraid of being alone that they will stay with someone until a safety net presents it self. Maybe youll be his safety net?
And even further..... You could always just go for the goal and not look back. Fight tooth and nail and be dirty about. Tattletail on her to him make yourself look that much better and just literally come between them.
Anyway you look at the cold hard truth of this crush is just this=Three is not company! Someone will walk away broken hearted and if you dont want to risk it being you then leave it alone while you can. Also remember that we only have one life to live and no going back intime.
I wish you the very best, And I will pray that you will find an answer or advice that helps.
2006-11-05 10:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by cjpburgess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be able to desire to maintain your mouth close and stay out of it. that's humorous you reported you have been traumatic approximately undesirable karma or it being a sin in case you do the entire faux facebook subject and yet you do no longer think of you will get undesirable karma or that it became a sin so which you would be able to cheat with this boy who you recognize had a female pal, you have been married you would be seen a house wrecker yet with the aid of fact you're a new child and with reference to this subject i assume you would be a courting breaker. look, you recognize he had a female pal so which you're able to be in basic terms as mad at your self, you knew what you have been getting in touch with and what could ensue. you would be able to desire to drop the entire subject and chalk it as much as a lesson discovered. you ought to additionally decrease off all touch with this boy, block and delete this boy from all your debts and contact. that's undesirable adequate what you probably did, yet how are you able to need and or admire a boy who would do this to his female pal?!
2016-10-03 07:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. Whatever happens between them has nothing to do with you. Find someone else. There are plenty other guys out there. This one is taken.
2006-11-05 10:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait no need to break up an happy home. jst wait until he see how much of a lieing tramp she is and he will break up with her be heart broken and just be there for him and hopeful he will appreactie you and she how all along the one thqat he wanted was right under his nose.
2006-11-05 10:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get between them.... it will never work out if you do. He will always resent you if he feels that you are the cause for the break up.... Let her mess up on her own...
Good luck...
2006-11-05 10:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if she lies to your best friend tell him if he is your best friend he will understand.
2006-11-05 10:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him the truth
2006-11-05 10:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Shanice M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋