Well every day when I go to school when I want to talk to my friend I say hi! She says hey well I can't talk right now because I'm busy so I'll talk later! I say ok... But then she goes up to this girl named Bobby and says hey wanna chat and then talks to her when she just said she was busy! She is my best friend and I really don't want to lose her!! What should I do!!???
2006-11-05 09:51:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your so called Best Friend wants to dump you.
Sorry, that sounds harsh, but it's the truth.
She is very immature and does not know how
to tell you. Go ask her straight out - than she has
to be honest. Either way - yes or no.
You can still be friends, sort off, but I would not
call her my best friend anymore.
2006-11-05 09:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently this "friend" doesnt care if she looses you or not! Ask her first, whats going on? Tell her your concerns and what your upset about so she knows. Tell her your feelings are hurt that she always puts you off and insteads goes to talk to this other girl when you are supposedly her best friend. This isnt how friends treat each other. If she doesnt change after a couple of weeks, i would say move on. I know its tough, but there are plenty of GOOD friends out there that will talk to you and be your friend, instead of avoiding you because thats not what friends are supposed to do. Good luck!
2006-11-05 09:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lynne B is right...your friend wants to tell you something.
And thats not backstabbing.
Talk to her whats the matter, If I did anything that woulld offend you tell her our sorry. But let her steam up a bit more, so shell tell you everything. :)
2006-11-05 10:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Karl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 07:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I think u just need to sit her down and talk to her be foward with her. tell her how u feel. If she doenst really talk to you then she must not be as good of a friend u think she is.
2006-11-05 09:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm. Well, ask her did you do something wrong to make her ignore you. If she says no, then explain to her the way she has been acting towards you. If she continues to act that way towards you then find another best friend.
2006-11-05 09:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey wanna chat ??thats what she says to bobby lol are you sure if so shes weird
2006-11-05 09:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she aint ur best friend so u should keep her as a friend but not as a bestfriend when she see u hanging out with other friends and doing fun things and yall be trippin then she will be all up in ur face again
2006-11-05 10:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should look for other friends. That is not a way for a best friend to treat you.
2006-11-05 09:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and ask what is going on.I mean its okay if she doesn't want to talk to you for whatever reason,but I would think since she is suppose to be your friend that she would have the courtesy to tell you that either the friendship is over for whatever reason or that she's mad over something with you and doesn't care to talk to you that much.
2006-11-05 09:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by Nexus K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋