He wasn't my favorite person. I didn't hate him either, but I feel as though I should feel worse about it than I do. Is this wrong?
2006-11-05 09:51:09 · 6 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No - your feelings are your own. Don't try to make yourself feel things you don't; you'll get so you don't even trust yourself!
It's sad he killed himself, but don't feel guilty, or pretend to a grief you don't feel - you just weren't very close to this guy. You can (and probably do) respect others' grief without sharing it.
2006-11-05 10:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~jve~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force yourself to feel something that you don't. There's nothing wrong about that -- it's just the way that you feel.
Don't let someone tell you how you "should" feel or be guilty because you're not broken up about the man's death. You may be more upset than you realize and react later. . .or you may not.
Either way, it's OK.
2006-11-05 18:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfeblayde 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have enough troubles in your life to look or feel bad about it, i`m sure you somehow you didn't`t want this to happen to your coworker,you might feel that he is in a better place now .
it Dos not`t have to be wrong.
2006-11-05 17:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Deedeeyahoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You'll mourn about it at your own pace. Just think what his parents and family are going through. Imagine if you were his parent. It's very very very sad stuff.
2006-11-05 18:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by mecasa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People harvest the seeds they plant.
2006-11-05 18:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes and you should die for it too...
2006-11-05 17:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by mr.2cool 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋