Oh Mi God! I knocked this girl up and she doesn't care I don't care to be a father!?

Question

I mean, how unfair can you be???? I can't make her abort it!!!

This is only a parody of another question that basically said the same thing but folks were much more forgiving of:

If a woman gets pregnant and wants to have the child but the man does not want to have the child should he be?

held responsible after making it painfully clear he does not want to be a father at this time. Conversely if a woman gets pregnant and does not want the child but the man is willing to raise the child yet she gets an abortion is she commiting murder because there is a willing person to be the parent? What r ur thoughts on this pregnancy issue? I have a feeling that the man always gets screwed in this instance. He's screwed if he wants the child and she doesn't or he gets screwed financially if he doesn't and she does. I welcome your comments

PS: This is not a personal experience thing I am researching

Answer 1

k i know what this girl is going through and it pisses me off that u would be so stupid to have sex eith her knowing the consequenses. its like all u boys care about is haveing sex to feel good and now since u r having a child u want to get rid of it and pretend it never happened. well grow up. i am 18 and pregnant and i am sick of the way my boyfriend is handleing the sitiuation. in the begginning u r always scared but once u tell people it becomes better trust me. he wanted me to get an abortin but i said no way. do u know what they do? it is a muliscious process adn the woman has to go through it not u so my advice is grow up and try to take care of ur child. i think if she want s to keep it hten respect that and move on adn take responisbility. if u dont feel u r old enough or even ready enough to be a dad then keep ur pants on until u r. cuz getting pregnant is a possibility.

Answer 2

You shouldn't have been having sex then. It isn't a game and I wish more KIDS like you would get that through their heads. No matter if you use a condom or another form of birth control, nothing except abstinance or a hysterectomy is 100%.

You need to be a man. You have no right trying to force her to abort it. You are not the one who would have to suffer the trauma of dealing with the abortion, SHE WOULD.

Suck it up and be a man.


Addition: If this really is for research, then I will say that if a woman gets pregnant and the man is willing to raise the child, then NO I don't think that she should get an abortion. I am against abortion anyways, but the main reason that I hear women say that they are getting an aboriton is because they are not ready to raise a child. Well, turning the child over to the father would not only keep the child from being murdered but the mother would not have to raise a child she is not ready for.

Answer 3

It doesn't matter if you are the father or not, you can't make her
get an abortion. Your mistake was to have Unprotected SEX.
Next time you have sex think about the consequences. Maybe
she had this planned for a long time, she could of been want to
get pregnant, but she was just looking for the right guy to come
along, That is called entrapment. If you choose not to be with girl
then at least help take care of the child. You knew exactly what
would happen if you were to have unprotected sex. Remember
you don't have to stay with the girl just because you got her
pregnant, but this will teach you a lesson. The child has nothing
to do with what ever happen to your relationship, but the child
needs a father in his/her life. If you choose not to be a father
then give up all parental rights to this girl, so if she ever gets
married then her husband can adopted this child. The child will
have hatred towards you for not being their for him/her. They
can consider you deceased in their life.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

It's very simple and fair. If you can't be mature enough to accept the situation and do the right thing, sign your rights over. It will be better if you do sign your rights over so that the baby doesn't have to go through life thinking that their father hates them or hates the fact that they were a mistake. This baby didn't ask to be brought into the world by you and his/her mother. Either grow up and accept the situation at hand and deal with it in a mature fashion or high-tail it out of there and don't look back.

Another thing, if you are going to have sex, use protection or take the responsiblity of your actions.

Answer 6

Well, you can sign your rights over when the baby is born if she doesn't care whether or not you are in the baby's life. Otherwise, get ready for child support!! Also, give it time. You might change your mind once you get in the mindset. Just because your not the pregnant one doesn't mean that you won't experience that emotional roller coaster too!

Also, maybe you should try having protected sex if you don't care to be a father. Making babies is the whole reason for sex.

Answer 7

I mean how big of a loser can you be?? She doesn't care whether you want it or not because she obviously knows she can do it without you and knows that her baby is probably better off without a so called "father" like you. Having an abortion is not the easiest thing in the world for a woman to do you know, they are killing their child. Sometimes it may be for the best, but that doesn't make it any easier. And just because your sorry @$$ doesn't want to be responsible doesn't mean it is for the best. There are plenty of father's (and mother's) who have nothing to do with there kids, so go and join that club!

Answer 8

Well, it's her body, and she doesn't want to go through an abortion, so I don't see why you should make her.
The moral thing to do is for you to support her. You don't have to marry her, but that's still your kid too whether you like it or not. Pay for child support at the very least. The best thing for you to do is to act like a father, but you obviously don't want to.
You have three choices: Grow up and be a father to your baby, Own up and pay child support if you're not going to be around them, or Be a coward and run away from your responsibilities.
Meanwhile, do try to refrain from putting yourself in this situation again.

Answer 9

Keeping your d*ck in your pants would have been a good way to prevent this! If you didn't want kids then you should be using your hands. It's not just up to the woman to prevent pregnancy..you should have thought about that before you went and had sex. It's your choice whether or not you're going to be a dad but you're going to have to pay for that child regardless. Get used to responsibility.

Answer 10

First of all, it aint "knocking someone up", that is your baby and a life you are slanging with. Second, if you are adult enough to get a girl pregnant, you are adult enough to accept the responsibility and see why this girl does not want an abortion. Remember, you have it easy, it is the poor girl that has this awful dilemma and puts up with the father of her child having an attitude like yours! Support her decision. Be a man.