well my friend invited me to go to the mall and hang out and then like she called me back and the she was like could u give me a ride cuz i cant find one, and then when we got there shes just like i dont have anymoney and im hungry and all this other crap and so i gave her like $2 to buy something and i just think shes just using me cuz she always needs rides and always wants my money
2006-11-05 09:29:40 · 11 answers · asked by cookieluvr2010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you need to sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her (firmly, but nicely) that she needs to get her priorities straight and quit asking for money and rides. Let her know that further on in life, you won't always be there to give her a ride or some extra cash. Its possible shes using you. Is she a best friend, or just a friend? If shes just a friend, maybe you should drop her and find some new ones. If shes a best friend, then ask her whats up with her acting like this, if shes truly your best friend she should understand and tell you.
2006-11-05 09:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by f.o.b<3(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, do the same thing to her. Ask her if she can get you two a ride to the mall..or at the mall ask her if she can give YOU some money. If she doesn't return the favor then you should tell her she should be at home doin' some chores or work for extra money and not at the mall bummin' off other people who she cant even pay back or do the same thing for.
2006-11-05 17:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by KT980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's totally using u!!! U need to tell her look if you are going to be like this to me then we aren't friends any more! That is just ridiculous. I know it would be hard but if you let it go it is just going to get worse.
2006-11-05 17:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by taliancheyenne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is using you i have a friend like that and she uses me too and i found out that friends like that you have too let them go honey no matter how bad it hurts you gonna have to learn too let folks go and some thing that you dont do is try too change her and if you cant let your friend go learn to tell her NO
2006-11-05 17:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shanice M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know how to say NO politely? personally i would loose this one based on what you have to say but without more details i say this lightly
good luck
2006-11-05 17:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok shez def using u no fren would want money frm thier frenz continuosly
2006-11-05 17:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya shes using u.
2006-11-05 17:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way she wants u to feed her and drive her around all the time sounds like it to me... do u do anything else other then that or wat does she do for u in return?
2006-11-05 17:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think
2006-11-05 17:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a user! Loser her quicker.
2006-11-05 17:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋