i amtrying to figure out whether or not living in a more lively part of town will help me feel less isolated. i live alone in a quiet sleepy area and feel lonely a lot of the time. i have the opportunity to uproot myself and go live somewhere more "cosmopolitan" but i don't know if this will help me or not. if you are unhappy does this feeling go with you if you move?
2006-11-05 09:28:45 · 9 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
one of my many reasons for moving was to be closer to my nan, the week before the sale completed and we got our keys she passed away, that was 18months ago and i still haven't settled in this house. its wrong living so close to her flat and not going to see her all the time like i had planned. sorry that didnt help you at all.
I live in the city and would rather live somewhere isolated yet my auntie lives in the middle of nowhere and wishes she was closer to city life so maybe it wouldnt help, dunno
2006-11-05 09:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not putting your energy now into going out, you may not actually feel any happier if you were to move.
You sound lonely..and there will be nothing worse in hearing and seeing the hub bub of a cosmopolitan area if you are lonely.
Now if you were to change your place of work at the same time...you might find some new mates who could take you out and get your energy going again.
Or join something in the Cosmopolitan area a club a class...make that journey every week and then see if you get any invites out..be prepared for the extra work and travelling..but it might help you decide what it is you are looking for.
I move every two years I have no choice as to where but you have to make good of what you have. if you go out all of the time you will continue to go out...no matter how difficult it is to get anywhere.
2006-11-05 09:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by SALLY D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a divorced woman who has had to move twice in the last 3 years. I recently rented a friends house. I sleep better than I have since my ex left me. I cried the first night, only because this house really felt like home to me. . I absolutely love it. It has improved my attitude about everything and getting a full nights sleep is something I never thought I'd get again. My unhappiness stayed at my last apartment, hasn't found me yet. It was the smartest thing I've done since my divorce. I very seldom cry over him anymore which is a wonderful thing. Loving where I'm livin' !! Move, it's worth the chance.
2006-11-05 10:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by justcurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how much you like the busier life. I recentely moved from a small community to a big city and at first I felt really bad and missed the quiet and figured that because I live in a bigger place that bad things would happen but now that I am setttled I am happier and do not think that I would be able to live without everything so close to me
2006-11-05 09:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly feel a lot better since I moved 4 years ago, I live in a much nicer area and have nice neighbours
2006-11-08 14:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the area necessarily. I moved to the other side of the world to try and start a new life but I just found that my demons followed me. The problems aren't geographical - they are in you.
2006-11-05 09:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Helen B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move. The fact that you are considering it points to you being in a move frame of mind. If that's the case, get on with it. We are almost always pissed off because we didn't do something rather than we did.
2006-11-05 09:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving to another place isn't gonna make u feel better u need to get a companion to fill those empty spaces up
2006-11-05 09:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by sPuNkY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋