Ok my only two people I consider friends I don't think they are because well they wont talk to me and one of my friends like anime and i do too, but when I start talking about it she would like look at me as if I was crazy. Also she (the anime likeing one) would always put my other friend in front of me. Ex: If I asked for a pen she would say "Sorry but I only have two left." but then my other friend would ask for one and the anime likeing one whould do it with out question. My other friend will do ANYTHING for a guy that she likes. EX: One time she was looking tho my bag and was holding my last candy (and I ready given her one but i dunno why she was looking tho my bag anyway). Then he crush asks her if he can have it and she just gives him it with out considering me, and guess what he does with it? He throws it to this other dude and hits him so the candy was wasted.... Do I sound like selfish or anything? And are this "friends" really "friends"?
2006-11-05 09:20:49 · 6 answers · asked by shy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, your friends aren't really friends. Friends are concerned for your well-being and happiness as much as their own. Friends might have to hurt you sometimes to help you, such as telling you that your boyfriend is cheating on you if he is, but a true friend will never hurt you just to hurt you, or hurt you so that they can get something from doing it.
I don't know why they have been treating you this way. If they haven't told you, then they should. If you haven't done anything to deserve this type of treatment from someone, then what they are doing so wrong. Even if you did do something, if they were your friends then they would tell you so that you would know and have the chance to make amends. What they are doing is cruel and what you would expect from an enemy, not a friend.
I hope you get them out of your life if they won't treat you as you should be treated. You need to be a friend to yourself, even if they won't be friends to you.
2006-11-05 09:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not friends at this time don't pay attention to them for now perhaps in the future like a year or more things will be different but for now they don't sound like friends at all .
2006-11-05 17:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUDE..very RUDE...doesnt at all sound like friends to me. I'd make her pay me back for the candy too..in any way she can.
2006-11-05 17:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by KT980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know before jumping to any conclusion..it would be better to have nice talk with your friends and clear thing up. tell them about your problems and let them try to understand it and hope the do . so i think that would the best advice i can think for you. ..i hoped it helped
2006-11-05 17:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by anzai_chavz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
f uck those b itches and NO your not selfish. do whatever you can to ruin they're lives. ooo, here's an idea, bring red food coloring to school and discreetly drip some on the back of their pants.
2006-11-05 17:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take chances.
2006-11-05 17:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋