what would you do??

Question

i get so jeallous over this one girl being around my boyfriend and i try really hard to stop being jeallous but it so hard. he knows how i feel and yet he still sits with her in their classes together and talks to her when im not around. it wouldnt bother me so much if he included me in their convos or just their friendship but it seems that i'm always shut out. when i walk up their convo ends or she just walks away and i dont know what to do anymore. this has resulted in me loseing my conection with the rest of his friends as well and i'm at a loss of ideas in how to fix this problem. can any of you help?

Answer 1

If your boyfriend says shes just a friend, that's probably all it is. In school, my best friends were boys. I didn't mess around with them, we just enjoyed talking. Girls were somewhat boring, worrying about clothes and make up and cheerleading, etc. I loved music and art. I even took drafting, we had coed drafting, it was great. alot of cool guys were in that class. I miss my boy "friends" all the time. Even now, my best and closest friend is a guy, we just have more to share than any girl. And we will never get intimate, ever. We are both married, but we don't get together with our spouses, they would be bored because our conversations wouldn't include anything relating to them. As long as sneaky stuff doesn't start happening, everything should be cool between her and your boyfriend.

Answer 2

tell your bf once again that him talking to this girl is bothering you,and then go talk to the girl and tell her the same thing,try to not to come off as being completely jelouse over her talking to your bf but more like you would like to be her friend too.I understand a guy just being friends with another girl but the whole sitting with her in classes and then her just walking off whenever you show up isn't really saying "just friends" to me.best of luck to you.