i went out with some friends last night and i might have made one of them uncomfortable. and i need to know would you apologize over the phone or would you apologize through instant messaging on the computer. if she isn't answering her phone what should i do. plz serious question.
2006-11-05 09:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have a relitive story to that! If she doesn't answer her phine you could instant message her or if another one of your friends is friends with her then you could apologize through her!
2006-11-05 09:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face apologies are always best...but give her some time to get over it a little. She's not answering because she's pissed. If you are truly sorry when you see her at school and give her a public apology, maybe in front of the same people that were there when you embarrassed her, it will mean more.
2006-11-05 17:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what you said or did
If it was a big insult etc then face to face is the only way, If its minor then a phone call. Never do this sort of thing in IM or email
If she wont answer the phone then leave a voicemail if she hasnt got that and again sepends how bad the problem drop off a 'small' gift with a note saying sorry (ie a box of mini muffins etc)
2006-11-05 17:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Deep Water 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to call her. If she has voice mail..you could leave a message and tell her that you are sorry, to please call you or answer the phone so you can apologize to her. If she doesn't answer or call you, try to message her. If ignored, I would try to meet up with her and ask her to listen to you for just a minute...that you are really sorry you made her uncomfortable. If she refuses all these opition...then you have done your best to say you are sorry!
2006-11-05 17:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by grandmaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not use the phone unless this person lives far away. In my experience, i feel much better going to the person and face to face apologising. It shows sincerity more. Maybe shake hands, embrace, or even a little cry. You might feel surprised and even elated on your way back home. You will surely rest and sleep better afterwards. Throw away that pride, let your feelings show
2006-11-05 17:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by redbass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF UR THAT INTERESTED IN HER ACCEPTING UR APOLOGY THEN GO FIND HER AND TALK TO HER AND DON'T DO IT AGAIN, SOMETHINGS NEED TO BE DONE IN PERSON IT GIVES IT A P E R S O N A L TOUCH, I'LL BET U YOUR FRIEND WOULD LIKE THAT BETTER
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-05 17:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by j4eimh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldent apologized to her on the phone or the IM you should apologized to her in person
2006-11-05 17:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by SAI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling her on the phone. If she doesn't answer and she is on the computer...try that route.
2006-11-05 17:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice if you could apologize in person, face-to-face.
2006-11-05 17:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what you said but you should apologize face to face.
2006-11-05 17:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋