2006-11-05 08:49:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
tell them how you honestly feel. the people who count will accept you for who you are, as for regrets only you can answer that, if you are not 100 percent sure then no dr would allow you to any way, start by living as a girl and seek counseling
2006-11-06 18:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might regret doing it- you know better than me how your family and friends will react. However, sometimes getting the secret out in the open is much better than the discrimination and pain you may face- and you'd never regret it, not at all. Unless you live in a very homophobic environment, I think you should tell when you are ready.
How to do it? Try to discuss gender identity, either in a loose way, like "Why can't a guy be girly, mom? Who says?", or in a full-on, informational method, where you do a little research on the subject, get lots of resources, and come fully armed to tell them who you are. Be gentle, be honest, don't act like a victim and don't accuse anyone of anything. Try to stress that not a lot will change- you are still you.
Either way, good luck!
2006-11-05 17:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a therapist who is skilled in gender issues. After you have had a few sessions with him or her then you can think about opening up to the people close to you. Some you will be glad you told others you will regret. But a GOOD Knowledgeable therapist can help you through the tough times.
Luck
2006-11-05 18:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the way you feel you should not regret telling any body. If they can't respect it then f them.
2006-11-05 17:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it out. You will feel so much better! and dont worry! they will understand!
2006-11-05 17:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it with finesse! be straightforward about it all. go for what is right for you. its your life you are dealing with here!
2006-11-06 19:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and say it. Dont be afraid to be who you really are. You only live once and you can't aim to please everyone. Attempt to please yourself, but always aim to please God and everything else will fall into place.
2006-11-05 16:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by tanishathegemini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋