Why is it, that you dont appreciate how much you would miss someone.......until they are gone !!?

Question

If you really care about a friend, a partner, a child, do me a favour......pick up the phone.....or go tell them........how much you care........thanks x

Answer 1

You never appreciate people because you think you have all the time in the world. I just found out that one of my friends is really sick in the hospital and it completely took me by surprise. People don't realize how quickly something could jump you from behind or a disease could eat you inside out. It isn't just in the movies, its real life.

Answer 2

I learned that to appreciate them before they are gone. Life is too short. After they are gone and you did not show appreciation when you could have it's too late. you can't turn back the hands of time. Some people tend to punish themselves after it is to late. There is no promise of tomorrow.

Answer 3

Thank you sooo much for posting your question/statement. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
YOU'RE AWESOME! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
And I extremely agree. We take our friends for granted because we think life is perfect and we'll always have time to see them.
Who knows? Maybe your best friend might move away. Mine did. Maybe your cousin gets in a fatal car accident. Your grandparent dies. You never know......
AD VITAM! FOR LIFE!

Thanks again!
Have fun!

P.S. ad vitam means for life in latin....

Answer 4

its human nature, but i think its important to put the effort forth to always keep in touch and tell the people that you love,I LOVE YOU!!!!

Answer 5

i SO understand that!
we take advantage of the fact that the people we love will Always be there...

Answer 6

you are right girl, our human nature seems so weird sometimes...i wish we could just evolve and get past this part of ourselves...

Answer 7

that's life baby!!